Oh your post was so sweet. I LOVE the part about finding Tommy and how he'll be my best friend for life. It's so true. He's worth way more than the two of them put together!
You cheered me up by reminding me of that very important fact!!
And yes, it is their loss. If they call me up wanting to visit NYC, I'll be laughing at them right after I direct them to a REALLY EXPENSIVE HOTEL. he he