I ahve received sooooo much flak for this in my family and on other boards. It wasn't even ME but it could have been. Society is so paranoid! There are a million circumstances that could have led to danger, and she had not one of those happen.
But we're alive and well and so on. I am traumatized and now afraid of police for the first time in my life, but I'm sure some day I'll get over this. It sure blew my weekend.