After reading so many of your posts, I feel like I've "gotten to know you" and I wanted to give you some encouragement. I'm sure you are a great mommy. The 100% issue is an interesting one. I am alone with my two year old 12 or 13 hours each day and as I'm sure you know it can be tricky to take care of one's own needs. It is something that no one ever talks about. How do you take a shower, get ready for an appointment, have an attack, etc...... Taking care of young children is hard and can be emotionally very draining. As mothers we do our best to keep kids as safe as possible while we take care of an occasional personal need. It is difficult and all mothers (who don't have nannies) can sympathize. All those who don't have kids and think they could handle it all with ease are in for a shock if/when they do have kids.