Oh BOY.
This is getting bad.
So, I being a nice friend referred my roomate a month ago to work for a laundry service.
He needed a job, and I knew the kid who ran it.
I was considering working there once I knew my schedule, because it involved driving cars which I like and it is run by laid back college students.
My roomate comes back tonight from there, he is very immature, and was rubbing it in.
He has been ignoring me since Tuesday when I told to pay his portion of the real estate bill.
He was bragging to his girlfriend about how great the job is, how great the people are.
Then, he got a phone call from somebody we both are friends with, his old roomate.
This old roomate of his got on my roomate's bad side because he, like me, had enough and decided not to kiss his fanny.
I remember my roomate would smile and be friendly to him face to face, then behind his back rdicule him, say mean spirited, slanderous things, not return his phoen calls, bash his family.
Well, on the phone tonight, he was talking loudly, acting like a big phony being so friendly and charming, as if he was sticking it to me.
I became nearly hysterical, jealous, it was like taking meat and teasing an animal.
Then, onc ein his room, I had the TV loud to drown out the noise of him being obnoxious.
He yelled turn the f--- TV down you deaf blank.
He yelled again, I said what?
Then he started bashing me, calling me a loser, saying I have no friends.
I got angry, called him a wife beater, told him to remember I helped him get a job.
He then said he would do what it took to make sure this place, where I want to work, never does hires me.
I became quite angry.
I want to resist the urge to get down on my knees and beg for him to take me back, I also want to avoid being immature.
I am angry, I have a lot built up, and sometimes I have an urge to release it, but I know, the best thing to do when somebody antagonizes is to ignore, take the high road, and be the bigger man.
It is worth me saying, he knows I have IBS, that I can not handle dairy, and he once threatned to put dairy on my food.
I am now afraid he has or will make me sick.
My stomach the past two days has been terrible, though it could be from having Ragu Tomatoe Sauce.
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