Hi there! I realize that it took a lot of courage to post that, so my hat's off to you.
As other people have said, nobody's perfect. Look at any professional bodybuilder, and you will see how obsession has driven them to do very insane things to their bodies! Their accomplishments are nothing short of amazing, but for many of these men - men who have genetics and physiques that most could only dream of having - it is simply not enough.
So it's fairly common to point out your own flaws - in fact, pretty much everyone here is trying to figure out just how the heck to deal with their dang IBS.  You should not feel ashamed of feeling this way about yourself, or for bringing it up.
As a man, I will admit that I will check out a woman's breasts when talking to her (at least the first couple times). (Gee, how do I say this without sounding like a complete perv?) But... if I reaaally like a woman, then I find the highest level of physical attraction comes from her eyes. And in fact, I'd personally take a pair of deep, dark eyes over breasts any day!
That being said, this is your decision and there is no wrong choice here. If you choose to get an implant or deal with things on your own terms, your true friends will support you no matter what.
I wish you the best of luck on this,
EvilCats
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