Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | It is about the baby, but it's about her too,

If they are both being unfaithful or even just believe they are, it usually doesn't work. Some people have been able to put relationships back together. But they are few and far between. In her place, I would leave. If she has called off the wedding, and she doesn't want to be with him, it's time to go. My parent were horrible together. I still think they were cheating on each other. They fought horribly and beat each other. And that escalated to them beating up on us. My mother always wanted to leave but just didn't have the strength to. She was too afraid. My brother turned to drugs and my sister ran away and got stuck in the same marriage my mom was in. No way I was doing that. I don't mean that this will happen to her. But if she doesn't do whats right now, years will pass and things will get worse. If she leaves now, she can still take care of herself and her baby and spare her child from a life like that. I know it's hard to do. It is so scary to do things on your own, to do what's right when people in your life are holding you down saying it's wrong. But she can do it. And she has to. She has to take care of her baby. I found myself in relationships like this after I left home. One day I realized I was repeating a pattern and stopped. I had to do it by myself. But all it takes is the decision. That's the hardest part. All you have to do after that is do it. Don't think about it.

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