Do you girls pack your hubby's lunch? Or does he have a brief case he carries? If not, leave him notes in his car! I'd get a pack of sticky notes and write on them "Today is a good day to buy my wife/gf flowers!" Or "Today my wife/girlfriend needs a massage" Or "If you don't do something nice for your wife/gf today, she's going to boot your arse out to the curb!" Ok, joking with the last one, kind of, but you get the point and maybe he will to! I know my hubby needs a figurative smack upside the head every once in a while to remind him of these kinds of things!
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....