If a person isn't chronicall ill...they just don't understand. Have you read your bf the spoon theory? Can he join BYDLS.com and get support there...it sounds like he needs it! I know hubby loves me...but he has no idea what to say to me. He just leaves me alone to deal. Sometimes he literally goes away (bike trips) just to get away from it all. It's hard *hugs* I'm truly sorry that this is all happening to you Nelly....you deserve health and happiness and understanding people in your life...
I love you...sending you loads of tea, chicken soup, and whatever brings you comfort *more hugs*