Don't feel bad...it's been mentioned here and there on the boards but I don't expect everyone to know My Mom died of pancreatic cancer back in 2001 when I was nineteen. That's why I have her rings and some of her other stuff. It will be rough not having her there for my big day...especially since she loved big parties and weddings and stuff like that and my Dad totally doesn't so I don't know if I'll be getting my "dream" wedding or anything like that. Plus, by the time I get married my Dad will be remarried so I don't know what the etiquette there is...if she'll be considered the mother of the bride of what.