Reged: 11/04/03
Posts: 5918
Loc: Northwest Washington State
Quote: I shouldn't be made to feel quilty because I'm too sick to go out all night partying! They weren't here for me when I needed them, so . . . If the b-day girl calls, I'll take her to lunch and give her the b-day presents I got for her and if not, well, ok too!
ABSOLUTELY! Sometimes we just have to sit back away from our situation and get outsiders' viewpoints to see it objectively, and once we realize that our friends aren't really looking out for OUR best, knowing our situation, then we see them for what they are. Who needs that kind of "friend"?