She said she understood and seemed ok, although maybe a bit upset that her b-day party isn't turning out the way she wanted it to. Apparently, before she even know I was backing out, one of the other girls got mad because she and her friends didn't want to drive to the b-day girls house so they cancelled first. I explained that I really wanted to do something with her if she decided she wanted to do something other then go Downtown but she said thats what she really wants to do. So, I offered to go over and take her out to lunch in the afternoon before they go out and she said she would call me back. The other girl just sent me an email that said "k."
I'm not sure how upset with me they are but, you know, I'm not sure I care too much right now! The more I think about it and the more I read everyones responses, I shouldn't be made to feel quilty because I'm too sick to go out all night partying! They weren't here for me when I needed them so I'm just not going to worry about it. If the b-day girl calls, I'll take her to lunch and give her the b-day presents I got for her and if not, well, ok to!
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....
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Re: Update, talked to the b-day girl
The more I think about it and the more I read everyones responses, I shouldn't be made to feel quilty because I'm too sick to go out all night partying! They weren't here for me when I needed them so I'm just not going to worry about it. If the b-day girl calls, I'll take her to lunch and give her the b-day presents I got for her and if not, well, ok to!
