Its so frustrating when friends just don't understand. I think you are a great person for putting your family first, in my opinion, thats how it should be! You or your hubby should never be ashamed but I know its hard not to be. Its helpful to know that I'm not the only one who struggles with things like this. I wish none of us did but at least we have each other who understand!
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....