and got voice mail so I just left a message to call me. I also replied to an email sent out to all of us with the plans outlined. I was very nice and very apologetic and just said I'm not up to it. I explained I'm still dealing with the loss of my babies and the new daignosis of fibro and RA and I just can't physically be in that big of a crowd of peopel, outside in the cold for hours on end. I think I did a good job explaining things without going into too many depressing details and asked if they decide to do something else to please let me know. I also told the b-day girl that I wanted to do lunch or dinner with her to make it up to her. I'll let you know what kind of response I get! Thanks everyone! It helps to know that I'm not just being an old fart and a party pooper!
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....