I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. But, you are right, there is a hole in my heart that isn't ever going to fully heel. I know too, that I will move on but sometimes its just so hard and I just feel like there is no justice. Why has my body let 5 healthy little babies die? I know that I can't control it, but yes, I still feel like its my fault. Like I let my babies down. I know my babies wouldn't want me to suffer and would want me to find peace and happiness but some days its so hard. I hate to sound so weak but I'm tired of being strong. I know I will never forget any of my babies. I plan on making a memorial in my garden this summer and I'm going to buy 5 little garden fairies and maybe have a stone engraved.
I feel like my grief is a wound that just won't scab over. That some days it doesn't hurt as much as other but then there are days like today where I feel pain and grief to my soul. I know there will be better days ahead and probably some more days like today. Its hard because I'm at work and have to at least try to pretend that I'm ok when I'm just not.
Thank you for sharing you story with me. I know it can be painful to remember but I do appreciate it. Its awful that so many people have had to suffer losses like this.
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....
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