I just want to say that I am SOOOOO sorry you had to go through all of this! I'm soooo sorry you feel rotten and have such a difficult time with your in-laws.
How do you feel now? Did venting here help? I hope so!!!
It's def. difficult when diff. religions mix sometimes. Even diff. cultures can be tough!! So I know how you feel (sounds like we all do!) (My hubby converted to Judaism and some of his fam are religious Christians!! So I can def relate. Most them are very accepting thank G-d but there are def. challenges. If we can help in any way, let us know.)
Take care of that tummy of yours and have Chag Sameach!
P.S. If you'd like a safe recipe for Latkas let me know and I'll post it on the recipe boards.