Hi Sand, I'm glad it looks like I "sound calm" cause I havn't been in my rants with my husband. He's been my therapist thus far and a damn good one...but yeah, a professional probably would not be a bad idea. I'll see how the visit goes in general and look into it all when I get back. We will only be in PA for two and a half days and lots of other family will be around for most of that time. That should help. I'll check in with everyone once I return also and let you all know how things go... Thanks, Min