Hi Ruchie, Thanks for your encouragement. I've looked before at my formulation for myers brigs - I don't remember what it came out to though. Will and I both took the test before we got married. We also did one that was supposed to place people in how they relate to eachother. Will and I came out as "companions" and I thought that was wonderful! I've never thought about where my mom would fit with either one of these tests, but it may be a good tool to help understand it all. I'll try to look into it. Thanks for the idea. I know Hannakah (sp?) is not as big a holiday for Jews as Christmas is for Christians, but I hope you have a lovely holiday coming up here as well! Min