Sweetie, we have to accept the things that God throws at us. If we dwell on how badly we have it, we'll never be happy. Oh sure, there are times when I question Him. When I hear on the news of a mother throwing her baby off a bridge, tossing it the trash basket on an airplane, or smothering it in a lake, I break down, because that's just so unfair that He would allow an animal like that to have babies but He wouldn't allow me to have them. What did I do to make Him so angry at me? Sure, I have my bad times.
But Beth, think about the good things you have that He has given you. We can't have it all ya know. While He chose for me to not have children, and He also chose for me to lose my first fiance to a fatal car accident, He also chose for me to eventually have an adoring husband who did NOT want children, and never did! So you see how it works out? My first fiance was devastated when he learned I was sterile. It would not have worked out in the end.
When I'm really down and out, I think of the many women with husbands who abuse them or cheat on them, and I turn to my hubby and give him a big kiss. You see, I really AM blessed.
Look at your blessings, look forward, Beth, don't look back.
Bevvy
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