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My Three Minutes of Tardiness
      09/30/05 01:43 PM
Bevvy

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Loc: Northwest Washington State

Sara, why are you always late? Is there a reason? Is it the same reason each time?

I don't know why your boss is keeping track, but you have the benefit now of KNOWING that she's doing it. Whether or not she's that name you called her, she does have authority to fire you, and that's what counts.

Frankly, I wouldn't focus so much on her -- after all, the stress is tearing up YOUR tummy, not HERS! -- but I'd take this opportunity to do whatever it takes to make SURE you're never late again. Do you like this job? Is it one you want to keep? If so, then I'd try to change my attitude and focus on being the most prompt employee she ever had, but I'd DO IT WITH A SMILE. If you "cop an attitude," she's already got her finger on that trigger, don't give her reason to pull it!

Now, having said all that, let me add that I do know how you feel. I had a boss one time who was a real hard-A$$. I was never late coming in except ONE TIME when I happened to run into a girlfriend on her way to work, whom I hadn't seen in 15 years. We were both early, so we stopped for a cup of coffee. It made me 3 minutes late. When my boss called me on it, I said, "you can take your 3 minutes and you know what you can do with it. I'm outta here!" I cleaned out my desk and left for good.

While it felt good, it wasn't what I would recommend, because it certainly doesn't bode well on a resume. Thankfully I never needed her for a reference!

Go have a Jack, get it all out of your system, then start all over -- with a big smile -- on Monday. Just remember, it could be worse: you could be retired!

Bevvy

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* ALWAYS late for work...
Sara-Sage
09/29/05 07:58 AM
* My opinion....
epa_ginger
10/05/05 07:45 AM
* Re: My opinion....
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 07:56 AM
* Re: My opinion....
epa_ginger
10/05/05 08:00 AM
* Re: My opinion....
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 08:03 AM
* Wow!
mickeymouse
10/06/05 04:26 AM
* Re: Wow!
Sara-Sage
10/06/05 06:36 AM
* Re: My opinion....
epa_ginger
10/05/05 08:13 AM
* Re: My opinion....
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 09:50 AM
* I can't imagine feeling like that every morning....
ecmmbm
10/05/05 07:21 AM
* Re: I can't imagine feeling like that every morning....
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 08:00 AM
* I guess I'm anal, but tardiness drives me crazy!!!!!!!
BL
10/04/05 07:25 PM
* Maybe BL didn't know about Tina's sleeping disorder?~nt~
poochibelly
10/05/05 06:36 AM
* Maybe, but that is why people should read through the posts before making comments like that -nt-
TommyNY
10/05/05 06:41 AM
* Re: Maybe BL didn't know about Tina's sleeping disorder?~nt~
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 06:40 AM
* Hey BL...
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 06:14 AM
* This is really harsh...sticking up for BL
ChristineM
10/05/05 09:36 PM
* Whoa!!!!
BL
10/06/05 06:54 AM
* Re: This is really harsh...sticking up for BL
TommyNY
10/06/05 05:56 AM
* Re: This is really harsh...sticking up for BL
Sara-Sage
10/06/05 06:37 AM
* Me too.....~nt~
poochibelly
10/06/05 04:43 AM
* Re: I guess I'm anal, but tardiness drives me crazy!!!!!!!
TommyNY
10/05/05 03:15 AM
* Re: I guess I'm anal, but tardiness drives me crazy!!!!!!!
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 06:16 AM
* Well said Tommy!
Linz
10/05/05 03:41 AM
* Thanks Linz
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 06:19 AM
* Ugh, that sucks.
Jennifer Rose
10/04/05 09:28 AM
* Re: Ugh, that sucks.
Sara-Sage
10/04/05 10:07 AM
* Tina
Linz
10/03/05 10:37 AM
* Re: Tina
Sara-Sage
10/03/05 11:35 AM
* Hi Tina
Stephie
10/03/05 10:30 AM
* Re: Hi Tina
Sara-Sage
10/03/05 11:38 AM
* Oooh la la
Stephie
10/03/05 02:38 PM
* Re: Oooh la la
Sara-Sage
10/04/05 06:44 AM
* from an HR perspective.....
poochibelly
10/03/05 08:45 AM
* Re: from an HR perspective.....
uwponine
10/04/05 03:11 AM
* Re: from an HR perspective.....
Sara-Sage
10/04/05 06:45 AM
* Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
poochibelly
10/04/05 10:05 AM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
Sara-Sage
10/04/05 10:08 AM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
Vicam
10/04/05 12:33 PM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
Sara-Sage
10/04/05 01:52 PM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
Vicam
10/04/05 02:12 PM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
Sara-Sage
10/05/05 06:24 AM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
poochibelly
10/04/05 12:42 PM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
Sara-Sage
10/04/05 01:53 PM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
TommyNY
10/04/05 12:58 PM
* Re: Family Medical Leave Act....an American thing, not sure they have it in Canada.~nt~
Sara-Sage
10/04/05 01:54 PM
* Re: from an HR perspective.....
Sara-Sage
10/03/05 08:48 AM
* Sara-Sage
poochibelly
10/03/05 09:12 AM
* Re: Sara-Sage
Sara-Sage
10/03/05 10:05 AM
* Re: ALWAYS late for work...
anlikerm
09/30/05 07:20 AM
* Re: ALWAYS late for work...
TommyNY
09/30/05 07:08 AM
* Re: ALWAYS late for work...
Sara-Sage
09/30/05 09:59 AM
* Re: ALWAYS late for work...
hawkeye
09/29/05 05:31 PM
* UPDATE, you won't believe this....
Sara-Sage
09/29/05 01:56 PM
* I always eat my breakfast at work...
Augie
10/03/05 08:29 AM
* My Three Minutes of Tardiness
Bevvy
09/30/05 01:43 PM
* Re: My Three Minutes of Tardiness
Sara-Sage
10/03/05 07:04 AM
* Re: My Three Minutes of Tardiness
Yoda (formerly Hans)
10/03/05 07:50 AM
* Contrarian opinion
Sand
09/30/05 10:28 AM
* Sand
TommyNY
09/30/05 11:11 AM
* Re: Sand
Sand
10/01/05 09:29 AM
* Re: Sand
TommyNY
10/01/05 10:51 AM
* Thankfully you don't have to put up with her too much longer!~nt~
poochibelly
09/30/05 09:28 AM
* Tina, your boss has mental problems!
bamagirl
09/30/05 09:01 AM
* Re: Tina, your boss has mental problems!
Sara-Sage
09/30/05 10:00 AM
* Sounds more "ANAL" than a cartload of IBS C-ers ~nt~
Portageegal
09/30/05 01:20 PM
* Re: UPDATE, you won't believe this....
retrograde
09/29/05 04:18 PM
* Re: UPDATE, you won't believe this....
JLL24
09/29/05 02:28 PM
* Re: UPDATE, you won't believe this....
Dr. Spice Yamin
09/29/05 02:23 PM
* I sympathise!
Linz
09/29/05 09:05 AM
* Re: I sympathise!
Sara-Sage
09/29/05 12:01 PM
* Re: I sympathise!
Linz
09/29/05 12:10 PM
* Re: I sympathise!
Sara-Sage
09/29/05 12:43 PM
* Oh yeah!
Linz
09/30/05 01:45 AM
* Re: I sympathise!
michele
09/29/05 09:10 AM
* Re: I sympathise!
Sara-Sage
09/29/05 12:04 PM
* Re: I sympathise!
Betharoo
09/29/05 12:18 PM
* Re: I sympathise!
Sara-Sage
09/29/05 12:45 PM
* Re: I sympathise!
Shell Marr
09/30/05 02:18 AM
* Re: I sympathise!
Augie
09/29/05 01:29 PM
* Beth
Sara-Sage
09/29/05 02:03 PM

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