That is awful that they charge so much money for adoption. Maybe taking a break from the treatments could be good for you though and go back to them later.
I don't have any children myself but I am getting married in July 2007 and I'm worried myself b/c I have UC I take Imuran (which is an immunosuppressant) and my doctor told her that I absolutely cannot get pregnant until she takes me off of it. It really sucks when things are so complicated. Try to rest and enjoy your time with your hubby. Jenn