Reading this does remind me of Tina's old posts!
I know it is hard to 'give up' on somebody if you love them, but just take some time and think about what is right for you. Maybe he is just going through a tough time right now, but atleast like you said you stsill don't deserve the way he is treating you. It is good that you realize this is wrong.
If this has been a really recent problem and further talks aren't helping, or things are getting worse, maybe you should take some time to evaluate your situation. Marriage is a serious thing and you do want to make sure he is 'right' before all that goes down.
Also, please remember, that even if you love someone and they love you, that doesn't change that you need to be treated like a queen by whoever you are with.
Is he ok with your daughter? Does he treat her good?
if this really is a true side of him coming out, it is hard to get people like that to change (if it is possible), and if he isn't willing to work on it or talk about it then maybe he just isn't the kinda guy you want to spend the rest of your life and raise your daughter with.
Well, that is my two cents,but keep in mind that I *am* a 21 year old, and haven't been in that exact situation, so I don't know what my advice is worth. I have, well, AGED alittle more than most people my age I can say though. I have been in a similiar relationship when I was younger, and things didn't get better to #1, I kicked him out, and #2, broke up with him.
Watch out to see if he gets really 'controlling', that is definately a cue to leave.
Another note... it seems to come out when guys are like that they like to 'snoop', you can ask Tina about that one... so make sure if you talk about thisto always log out of the boards, keep your password private, and maybe to keep your computer settings to delete website history.
Hope everything works out for you... it really sucks being on top of the world in love and have it crashing down.
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-Sheri
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