All Boards >> The Living Room

View all threads Posts     Flat     Threaded

Re: Beth
      08/31/05 10:13 AM
Dr. Spice Yamin

Reged: 04/15/04
Posts: 3286
Loc: Maryland

I agree with what Rachel said.

I have friends that are doctors and they are turned off when people come in and rattle off a list of ailments, disorders, sydromes, dysfunctions etc. (I know it sounds stupid bc they are supposed to help, but I think its definitly the case).

I think rachel has a point, that you might be better off starting from phase one and going in and saying you dont' know whats wrong with you. Perhaps you dont' even have ibs because none of the conventional cures to ibs are helping you in the slightest. your previous doctor could just really suck, and perhaps starting over from scratch might be the best idea.

Also, I hope you're not offended by this bc I know you are sensitive but I really think you should try really really hard to look into the therapy more. I think in the long run, it will be worth the debt. I realize that its a fable that the IBS is all in someones head, but I do think is some small way that mental health, stress, self esteem can all play a role in our symptoms in some caes. I know that you said that you had low self esteem and that you can't make decisions etc. I couldn't even imagine not being able to make decisions and the stress this must put on you subconsciously and consciously. Perhaps inside you're so twisted up by stress and anxiety that its making you even more constipated.

maybe seeking a counselor will help you to gain self esteem, develop the ability to make decisions and take some of the strain and stress off your poor body. I honestly think that counseling and developing the ability to be confident in yourself and your decisions may actually help more than fiber, dieting etc.

I hope you don't get offended, but as a counselor myself, I know how important self worth, and self esteem is in regards to our bodies.

--------------------


Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator    

Entire thread
* Sorry, but I need help again
Augie
08/30/05 07:37 PM
* Bethie!
Sara-Sage
09/01/05 10:47 AM
* Beth
BL
09/01/05 07:11 AM
* This doc was recommended
Augie
09/01/05 09:19 AM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
Kristine
09/01/05 06:06 AM
* Beth
jen1013
08/31/05 05:56 PM
* That's horrible!
Augie
09/01/05 10:38 AM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
Shell Marr
08/31/05 04:18 PM
* Thanks Shell
Augie
09/01/05 10:28 AM
* Beth
Portageegal
08/31/05 02:23 PM
* Carol, thanks
Augie
09/01/05 10:27 AM
* Re: Beth
Jennifer Rose
08/31/05 03:16 PM
* When will they take the time...
Augie
09/01/05 10:41 AM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
Sheri01
08/31/05 12:25 PM
* Amen to that Sheri
Augie
08/31/05 12:38 PM
* Beth
Sand
08/31/05 12:24 PM
* Thanks Sand
Augie
08/31/05 12:54 PM
* Re: Thanks Sand
Sand
09/02/05 08:49 AM
* Maybe I missed this.....................
tnchawk
08/31/05 11:47 AM
* Re: Maybe I missed this.....................
Augie
08/31/05 12:15 PM
* Re: Maybe I missed this.....................
tnchawk
09/01/05 05:53 AM
* Just want to say to everyone
Augie
08/31/05 11:43 AM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
Vicam
08/31/05 11:17 AM
* Thanks Kelly
Augie
08/31/05 11:46 AM
* Re: Thanks Kelly
Vicam
08/31/05 12:09 PM
* Some ideas...
Snow for Sarala
08/31/05 10:33 AM
* This just hurts me
ecmmbm
08/31/05 05:28 AM
* Re: This just hurts me
Augie
08/31/05 10:39 AM
* Beth
poochibelly
08/31/05 05:38 AM
* Yep, he knew before he even walked in the door
Augie
08/31/05 10:51 AM
* It was a GI ~nt~
poochibelly
08/31/05 11:07 AM
* Re: Beth
Dr. Spice Yamin
08/31/05 10:13 AM
* No way offended
Augie
08/31/05 11:03 AM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
CathUK
08/31/05 05:25 AM
* Thank you
Augie
08/31/05 11:07 AM
* {{{hugs}}}
Linz
08/31/05 05:25 AM
* Oh Linz
Augie
08/31/05 11:06 AM
* Just a couple 'outside the box' ideas or something...
Stephie
08/30/05 09:12 PM
* Re: Just a couple 'outside the box' ideas or something...
Augie
08/31/05 11:40 AM
* Beth,
_Willow
08/31/05 10:47 PM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
lalala
08/30/05 08:03 PM
* I don't have a PCP...
Augie
08/30/05 08:15 PM
* Honestly...
atomic rose
08/30/05 09:25 PM
* But isn't this beyond the scope of a PCP?
Augie
08/31/05 10:11 AM
* Not necessarily, because...
atomic rose
08/31/05 07:46 PM
* Re: I don't have a PCP...
ChristineM
08/30/05 08:24 PM
* You know...
Augie
08/30/05 08:31 PM
* Re: You know...
beeceedee
08/30/05 10:06 PM
* Brandy...I identify with Job so much!
Augie
08/31/05 10:27 AM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again *DELETED*
Jeano
08/30/05 07:58 PM
* Shelby, you are such a good friend..
Augie
08/30/05 08:20 PM
* Re: Shelby, you are such a good friend.. *DELETED*
Jeano
08/30/05 08:29 PM
* Yes, Cleveland clinic was the one
Augie
08/30/05 08:33 PM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
Safari567
08/30/05 07:55 PM
* If he won't see me, why would anyone else?
Augie
08/30/05 08:01 PM
* Re: If he won't see me, why would anyone else?
Safari567
08/31/05 09:55 PM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
dan the redneck man
08/30/05 07:52 PM
* Thank you!
Augie
08/30/05 08:25 PM
* Re: Thank you!
dan the redneck man
08/31/05 06:46 AM
* Yep, just looking for a doc
Augie
08/31/05 10:25 AM
* Re: Oh Beth
michele
08/31/05 08:01 AM
* Michele
Augie
08/31/05 10:22 AM
* Re: Sorry, but I need help again
TommyNY
08/30/05 07:46 PM
* Tommy
Augie
08/30/05 07:55 PM

Extra information
0 registered and 186 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:  Heather 



Permissions
      You cannot post until you login
      You cannot reply until you login
      HTML is enabled
      UBBCode is enabled

Thread views: 20968

Jump to

| Privacy statement Help for IBS Home

*
UBB.threads™ 6.2


HelpForIBS.com BBB Business Review