My daughter had a sensory problem when she was little and would flip out at the drop of a hat. I often sat down, pulled her into my lap and rocked her (like an autistic person rocks) until she settled down. It was as if she needed to feel safe.
You and your boys have been through much this summer and I am sure he feels as if his life is out-of-control and the "safe" feeling has been compromised. I say this because my parents split up when I was 17 and I went through these emotions. It is probably scarier since your son is younger than I was. Feeling safe and that your life is in order is key for a young child...I agree with you that a normal routine will help him immensly.
My daughter is loyal to me to this day...more so than most kids because she knows that I love her unconditionally and that she is always safe with me. She had consequences for unattractive behavior but always had the "safe" feeling.
We did seek help from a counselor...it was such a blessing. He was a Christian and old enough to be her very young grandfather ...I wouldn't trade those years for anything.
I hope somehow my words help you...will be keeping you in my prayers.
-------------------- Have a blessed day!...Rachel
stable and sooooooo thankful!
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...I wouldn't trade those years for anything.
