Ok, this is in no way funny....
07/21/05 09:01 AM
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epa_ginger
Reged: 02/23/05
Posts: 1158
Loc: Chicago, IL
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but I chuckled a bit because I'd react the same way. I am spiritual, although not as publicly practicing as I should be, and healthy in terms of sexuality (I think), BUT I'm very...private about that maybe? Or just not as...experimental? It's hard to describe. I would feel cheap too. My husband is constantly joking about "filming" certain events. And I don't think it's wrong or immoral or anything like that, but for me I would be SO uncomfortable, would NEVER watch it, see it as potentially damaging should someone find it and just don't want to do it. I think so far it's a joke, but I know if I said "Ok!" he'd be all for it. (Will never happen). Since your husband knows you so well, I wonder why he thought it was appropriate? Or didn't at least get you something else more meaningful to YOU, and make that gift more of a joke.
I'm so sorry!! That's a bummer! I think maybe you should just sit down and explain why it made you uncomfortable, and that you didn't mean to make HIM uncomfortable with your reaction, but that it just took you by surprise since it's not something you'd normally be into. You know find a way to say---no I don't think you're a weirdo, it's just not my cup of tea, how about we class things up a bit instead? I'm not sure...but I don't think you're odd for feeling this way---if you're odd, so am I! (thinking now, I'm sure some of my friends would be fine with it, and some would react just like me.)
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