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      07/19/05 11:47 PM
Stephie

Reged: 03/10/04
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Loc: Vancouver, Canada

Hi Cyndy,

First off, I wanted to say that I do agree with you - the idea that people who are stable should help people who are not is exactly what I think this board is designed to do. I will be the first one to admit that I don't go over there as often as I should, and I am willing to admit that I really should. I am not stable, but I do know that there are questions I could probably try and answer.
I do have reasons, though, that my name doesn't pop up there like it used to..

1) Like everyone else said, the questions are so heavily covered that if they would read almost anything before posting, they would know the answer already. If this were my full time job, I will still answer. Unfortunately, a lot of us have other full time jobs and everything and just don't have enough time to, like someone else said, answer questions like, "Can I eat ice cream?" and stuff.

2) I have had A LOT going on in my own personal life lately, and I have found it really exhausting. I will devote more time to it once I am feeling better myself.

3) A couple of months ago, and if you look back you will see this, I was responding to posts on the IBS board left right and center. I wrote several really lengthy responses that had a lot of information that was easily accessible at various other areas in the site.
Then I ran into something that bothered me even more - People who were in best cases completely unresponsive, and in worse cases people who were rude and disrespectful. I want to help as much as the next person, but I won't allow something that I NEED as a support system right now to make me feel worse than when I log in.

That being said, I do feel that we could all probably give more than we do in all aspects of life and I have felt guilty for a while that I have chosen not to visit the EFI board for a while. I will do so soon, and I will try to answer as many questions as I can.
I am an IBS-D though, and I have noticed a huge swarm of IBS-C posts which I will not respond to because I just don't know.

Thanks for asking, you do raise a good point. No feathers ruffled on my end.

--Steph

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* Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
Cyndy
07/19/05 07:50 AM
* Reality Check
Sand
07/20/05 06:23 AM
* Wow, look at the statitician!
Linz
07/20/05 06:30 AM
* ok, maybe I am thinking of this way more than I need to but . . .
Janey
07/20/05 02:10 AM
* Yep...
chinagrl
07/20/05 06:50 AM
* Okay, a little confused
Sand
07/20/05 07:13 AM
* to that end...
poochibelly
07/20/05 06:43 AM
* My Reasons...
Stephie
07/19/05 11:47 PM
* Cyndy
poochibelly
07/19/05 08:33 PM
* Re: I agree with you 100% but........
LittleLisa
07/19/05 05:29 PM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
gregory wayne
07/19/05 12:41 PM
* Pictures...
Linz
07/19/05 01:31 PM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
michele
07/19/05 01:02 PM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
barbie
07/19/05 11:53 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
gregory wayne
07/19/05 01:19 PM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
Portageegal
07/19/05 11:43 AM
* Reading old posts
Sand
07/20/05 06:32 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
chinagrl
07/19/05 11:54 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
Portageegal
07/19/05 12:00 PM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
retrograde
07/19/05 11:13 AM
* Who could forget him?
Sand
07/20/05 06:42 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
Kimm
07/19/05 10:43 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
TommyNY
07/19/05 10:34 AM
* well my answer is ...
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/19/05 10:08 AM
* Better subject lines
Sand
07/20/05 06:38 AM
* But they don't read them anyway...
Linz
07/20/05 07:10 AM
* Re: But they don't read them anyway...
Sand
07/20/05 07:15 AM
* Oh, I was referring to...
Linz
07/20/05 07:18 AM
* Ah, got you. This is getting awfully confusing. -nt-
Sand
07/20/05 07:33 AM
* Hey Amanda
Janey
07/19/05 10:22 AM
* I read the diet board several times a day, but...
atomic rose
07/19/05 09:46 AM
* Re: It's beginning to give me a headache
Wind
07/19/05 08:24 PM
* Real people
Sand
07/20/05 06:45 AM
* As someone who checks EVERY post in the EFI forum...
Linz
07/19/05 09:39 AM
* Re: As someone who checks EVERY post in the EFI forum...
Sand
07/20/05 06:28 AM
* Oh I do!
Linz
07/20/05 06:32 AM
* PS. AWOL alert!
Linz
07/20/05 06:34 AM
* The other thing is...
chinagrl
07/19/05 09:49 AM
* I know the feeling
Janey
07/19/05 10:26 AM
* Re: The other thing is...
Sand
07/19/05 10:00 AM
* Re: The other thing is...
chinagrl
07/19/05 10:23 AM
* I'm often reading posts on the diet board lately, but...
RachelT
07/19/05 09:07 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
*Melissa*
07/19/05 09:05 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
Jennifer Rose
07/19/05 10:15 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
bamagirl
07/19/05 08:54 AM
* Okay, sorry to be a broken record but....
Linz
07/19/05 10:30 AM
* Linz, I think you are the most faithful, patient moderator on that board!
bamagirl
07/19/05 11:54 AM
* I'm not even a moderator!
Linz
07/19/05 12:59 PM
* Linz, I hereby dub you...
Augie
07/19/05 07:52 PM
* I did not know this!!! You just went up another notch in my book!!
bamagirl
07/19/05 01:27 PM
* Aw thanks!
Linz
07/19/05 01:34 PM
* Re: Your not???
michele
07/19/05 01:03 PM
* Well, you should be!
*Melissa*
07/19/05 01:02 PM
* I'm not having a bad experience
Cyndy
07/19/05 09:02 AM
* Re: I'm not having a bad experience
gregory wayne
07/19/05 01:23 PM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
chinagrl
07/19/05 08:03 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
Dr. Spice Yamin
07/19/05 08:41 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
michele
07/19/05 08:18 AM
* Re: Why don't most of you post on the Eating Board?
melitami
07/19/05 08:01 AM
* I can speak for myself...
Sara-Sage
07/19/05 07:56 AM
* I agree
Janey
07/19/05 08:35 AM
* Another thought
Janey
07/19/05 08:40 AM
* This is my point
Cyndy
07/19/05 08:59 AM
* Re: This is my point
gregory wayne
07/19/05 01:27 PM
* Cyndy
Janey
07/19/05 09:22 AM
* Which boards?
epa_ginger
07/19/05 09:04 AM
* The Eating For IBS Board-nt
Cyndy
07/19/05 09:05 AM
* Cyndy...
epa_ginger
07/19/05 09:11 AM

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