You guys are so full of encouragement of all sorts... I'm glad I entered this living room!! Actually, if anyone were to give up, it would probably be me. Not happy, actually, and I just don't see that it's right to live my life unhappy or to keep him from his full potential, either. BUT... God is good, and He has given me a faithful husband, and for that I am truly grateful. He's not a bad guy, not at all... just VERY different from me... all we have in common is that we both love the Lord (his faith is MUCH stronger than mine, though), and we both enjoy a nearby university's sports program (this is something I worked on so that we WOULD have something in common... now it's a passion!). AND... last but not least, he adopted my daughter 6 months and one day after we were married (she was 3 1/2 yrs old), which was the soonest the law allowed. So, again, not a bad guy at all... but a bit strange at times, and just not at all compatible with me. Not to say that I don't have my quirks, too... but I seriously think that if people who know both of us were asked, they would say that he is odd, and I'm more the norm. In truth, it was just after we married that I developed the IBS... within just a couple of weeks. Just a consequence??? I think it was the immediate stress of knowing I may have made a serious mistake. However, once again, thank you for the encouragement, and I do believe that if we both live long enough, we WILL have another 17 yrs. ~K~
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