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Re: No offense taken, really!
      07/14/05 11:47 AM
LittleLisa

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I think because probably more than half that post on these boards do stay home that I just felt that there was no working mom's speaking up and I kinda just wanted to add how my life goes. I also live in a development where 90% of the mom's don't work and it gets frustrating cause they all have their own little "click" and I sometimes feel left out cause I work. To be honest with you though I think if I didn't work I'd fall into their gossipy ways that I don't want to be like that. Sometimes it's better to be out of the loop

Anyways, with the kind of job you have, I can guarantee that you will not be happy working the hours that you do if you had a little one. Your choice to stay home would be a smart one at least for the first years maybe until they go to school. Of course, it does get a bit easier but it's still hectic with after school activities! It really never ends.

I would be fine staying home part time but probably not full time. I'd go a bit crazy. I have to agree with LanaMarie though, I think we all have it in our minds that we are supposed to stay home or should stay home and when that plan doesn't work, we feel guilty. I think you best bet is to try it and see. If it doesn't work after the first 6mths or so, would your employer let you come back? That's something to think about.

Thanks for the kind words. I really didn't mean to make anyone think that I thought I was a bad person, but sometimes guilt makes you wonder

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* Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
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07/15/05 06:00 PM
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07/15/05 11:03 AM
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07/15/05 11:55 AM
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07/15/05 11:28 AM
* See, I don't like the word "nag..."
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07/15/05 11:23 AM
* Wow - all men really ARE the same... :)
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07/15/05 11:37 AM
* I guess so!!
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07/15/05 01:44 PM
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07/15/05 02:09 PM
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07/15/05 02:33 PM
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07/14/05 07:17 AM
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07/14/05 07:19 PM
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07/14/05 08:03 AM
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07/14/05 08:12 AM
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07/14/05 08:21 AM
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07/14/05 08:09 AM
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07/14/05 08:11 AM
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07/14/05 07:25 AM
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07/14/05 07:52 AM
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07/14/05 08:11 AM
* Parallel childhoods?!
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07/14/05 08:17 AM
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07/14/05 08:25 AM
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07/14/05 08:08 AM
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07/14/05 07:50 AM
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07/14/05 07:45 AM
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07/14/05 07:56 AM
* I do that too!
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07/14/05 11:53 AM
* Me, too....
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07/14/05 11:59 AM
* Re: Me, too....
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/14/05 01:07 PM
* Wow...
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07/14/05 06:49 AM
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07/14/05 07:09 AM
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07/14/05 07:19 AM
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07/14/05 07:31 AM
* You're so cool!!
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07/14/05 07:55 AM
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07/14/05 08:02 AM
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07/14/05 07:01 AM
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07/16/05 07:11 PM
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07/14/05 09:24 AM
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07/14/05 08:39 AM
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07/14/05 08:43 AM
* Re: Making babies ... and then staying home with them!
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07/13/05 08:50 PM
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07/13/05 07:11 AM
* Compelled to post a reply to this one...
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07/13/05 05:55 AM
* I didn't know you homeschool too!!! cool... nt
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07/13/05 06:56 AM
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07/13/05 07:40 AM
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07/13/05 10:24 AM
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07/13/05 10:40 AM
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07/12/05 06:48 PM
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07/12/05 06:40 PM
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07/12/05 06:33 PM
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07/13/05 12:18 AM
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07/13/05 05:02 AM
* Cara
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07/13/05 08:11 PM
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07/14/05 05:43 AM
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07/15/05 11:47 AM
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07/16/05 08:08 AM
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07/16/05 01:53 PM
* Ahh, Cara.....
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07/13/05 06:58 AM
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07/13/05 09:49 AM
* This is a tricky issue!
chinagrl
07/13/05 09:53 AM
* Re: This is a tricky issue!
LittleLisa
07/13/05 10:36 AM
* Lisa! (and any other working mom)
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07/13/05 08:03 PM
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LittleLisa
07/14/05 11:47 AM
* Re: No offense taken, really!
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07/14/05 01:11 PM
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07/13/05 11:50 AM
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07/13/05 02:18 PM
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