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I have to say I agree with Tina...
      07/12/05 02:44 PM
Dr. Spice Yamin

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My mom and dad have been happily married 25 years.. but she gave me some advice..

My mom said that marriage is hard enough as it is, and marrying someone that does not adore you is only a recipe for disaster. She said that as years pass when you'r emarried, you need all that extra love you had for one another in the beginning to get your through the hard times.

my mom thinks that if a guy does not adore you, and would drop anything for you just to be with you, I honestly think he'll be wishy washy for life. (I know that there are rare cases).. but I think that when you've found THE ONE there is no need to question anything, you just know, and really you'd drop anything for that person(at least at first.. haha my mom says that that fades, but I agree that if you have that at first, you can probably make it through the long haul a heck of alot easier)

I honestly am not married or close to it, so I don' tknow if its true.. but I know my mom's very smart, and I know my parents still make out in the kitchen to this very day.

good luck with everything..

some advice I could give you.. is you dont' want to keep waiting around and giving second chances until you end up older than you'd like to be when you get married and start your family

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* Don't Know What To Do.....
Kimm
07/11/05 10:17 AM
* UPDATE #3
Kimm
07/12/05 06:30 PM
* A good plan.....
epa_ginger
07/12/05 06:35 PM
* UPDATE #2
Kimm
07/12/05 09:45 AM
* Re: UPDATE #2
Snowy
07/12/05 12:11 PM
* Kimm
Sara-Sage
07/12/05 10:09 AM
* Hmm...
Cara4503
07/12/05 10:01 AM
* Am I Crazy??
Kimm
07/12/05 10:19 AM
* This is tough!!!
epa_ginger
07/12/05 12:38 PM
* epa_ginger
Kimm
07/12/05 01:50 PM
* Yep...
epa_ginger
07/12/05 02:15 PM
* Re: Yep...
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/12/05 02:23 PM
* Re: Yep...
epa_ginger
07/12/05 02:27 PM
* Re: This is tough!!!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/12/05 12:42 PM
* Re: This is tough!!!
Jennifer Rose
07/12/05 02:06 PM
* Oh, no!!
epa_ginger
07/12/05 12:49 PM
* For Kimm
Snow for Sarala
07/12/05 01:09 PM
* Re: Oh, no!!
AmandaPanda, J.D.
07/12/05 12:58 PM
* You're not crazy!
Cara4503
07/12/05 11:05 AM
* No - the deciding factor is commitment
ecmmbm
07/12/05 10:52 AM
* I agree with Michele...
Linz
07/12/05 10:58 AM
* Re: I agree with Michele...
chinagrl
07/12/05 11:05 AM
* Re: Am I Crazy??
michele
07/12/05 10:52 AM
* Re: Am I Crazy??
chinagrl
07/12/05 10:35 AM
* Re: UPDATE #2
Shell Marr
07/12/05 09:55 AM
* Re: UPDATE #2
chinagrl
07/12/05 09:55 AM
* Update....
Kimm
07/11/05 01:32 PM
* ANOTHER update....
Kimm
07/11/05 03:26 PM
* Re: Kimm, I've been there.....
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07/11/05 04:03 PM
* I can't help but feel happy about this!!
epa_ginger
07/11/05 03:35 PM
* Thank you all.....
Kimm
07/11/05 07:51 PM
* Kimm, I missed this whole thing...
Augie
07/11/05 07:58 PM
* Re: Kimm, I missed this whole thing...Me too!
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07/11/05 08:49 PM
* Aww Kimm...
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07/11/05 02:57 PM
* Re: Update....
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07/11/05 02:30 PM
* Urgh!!!!
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07/11/05 02:25 PM
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07/11/05 08:14 PM
* OK, I have to say something to defend my Gender
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07/12/05 06:38 AM
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chinagrl
07/12/05 06:45 AM
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07/12/05 06:56 AM
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07/12/05 06:59 AM
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07/12/05 09:53 AM
* I feel sick for you....
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07/11/05 01:55 PM
* Oh Kimm...
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07/11/05 01:54 PM
* Re: Hugs
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07/11/05 01:36 PM
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07/11/05 01:49 PM
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07/11/05 01:54 PM
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07/11/05 01:09 PM
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07/11/05 12:54 PM
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07/11/05 12:08 PM
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07/11/05 11:42 AM
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Lana_Marie
07/11/05 11:49 AM
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Sara-Sage
07/11/05 11:31 AM
* I have to say I agree with Tina...
Dr. Spice Yamin
07/12/05 02:44 PM
* I agree with Tina & Ashley
TommyNY
07/12/05 03:37 PM
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Kimm
07/11/05 12:12 PM
* Re: Don't Know What To Do.....
TommyNY
07/11/05 12:17 PM
* I dunno...
chinagrl
07/11/05 12:21 PM
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07/11/05 12:14 PM
* Re: Don't Know What To Do.....
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07/11/05 12:18 PM
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07/11/05 12:18 PM
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07/11/05 12:21 PM
* I dated a guy like this
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07/11/05 11:27 AM
* I'm always for being open/honest/up front...
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07/11/05 10:39 AM
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07/11/05 11:39 AM
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07/11/05 10:35 AM
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07/11/05 10:29 AM
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07/11/05 10:28 AM
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07/11/05 11:38 AM
* I don't understand.....
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07/11/05 12:16 PM
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07/11/05 12:36 PM
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07/11/05 12:23 PM
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