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For Kimm       07/12/05 01:09 PM Edit Reply Quote Snow for Sarala Reged: 03/12/03 Posts: 5430 Loc: West Coast, USA My husband and I spoke on the phone for 4 hours before our 1st date...which lasted 13 hours! We knew that night we would wed. We even wished it on coins at the Copley Mall! (And only told each other during our 1st year of marriage)... BUT... When hubby found out I had learning disabilities he became concerned. Would I be able to work (I had been fired several months earlier because I couldn't do data processing...)? Would his income be enough for both of us? And what about the abuse I'd endured? What would intimacy be like? Well...he decided to marry me anyway. And his worst nightmeres came true! I can't work cause I'm a mess emotionally and the abuse is def. in the way of intimacy! We have next to no money. BUT he still loves me and says he wouldn't want to be married to anyone else! THAT is what I want for YOU KIMM! *hugs* Every woman deserves that kind of love and treatment. He might not buy me presents or anything...but he LOVES me and doesn't plan to leave (still hard for me to believe)...and he well could! Many folks would have left a situation this tough. If you feel that your BF would treat you this well (saying he wouldnt miss you after a few days really irks me...hubby and I miss each other while he's at work for a few hours!)...then I say stand by your man If you have any doubts...I say walk away. I just don't want to see such a wonderful person hurting...or getting less than she deserves!!! But as everyone has said...the decision must be yours...you know what is in your heart. But please careful with my friend Kimm...and look at for her 1st! Love ya! *hugs* Ruch -------------------- Formerly known as Ruchie Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Don't Know What To Do..... Kimm 07/11/05 10:17 AM UPDATE #3 Kimm 07/12/05 06:30 PM A good plan..... epa_ginger 07/12/05 06:35 PM UPDATE #2 Kimm 07/12/05 09:45 AM Re: UPDATE #2 Snowy 07/12/05 12:11 PM Kimm Sara-Sage 07/12/05 10:09 AM Hmm... Cara4503 07/12/05 10:01 AM Am I Crazy?? Kimm 07/12/05 10:19 AM This is tough!!! epa_ginger 07/12/05 12:38 PM epa_ginger Kimm 07/12/05 01:50 PM Yep... epa_ginger 07/12/05 02:15 PM Re: Yep... AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/12/05 02:23 PM Re: Yep... epa_ginger 07/12/05 02:27 PM Re: This is tough!!! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/12/05 12:42 PM Re: This is tough!!! Jennifer Rose 07/12/05 02:06 PM Oh, no!! epa_ginger 07/12/05 12:49 PM For Kimm Snow for Sarala 07/12/05 01:09 PM Re: Oh, no!! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/12/05 12:58 PM You're not crazy! Cara4503 07/12/05 11:05 AM No - the deciding factor is commitment ecmmbm 07/12/05 10:52 AM I agree with Michele... Linz 07/12/05 10:58 AM Re: I agree with Michele... chinagrl 07/12/05 11:05 AM Re: Am I Crazy?? michele 07/12/05 10:52 AM Re: Am I Crazy?? chinagrl 07/12/05 10:35 AM Re: UPDATE #2 Shell Marr 07/12/05 09:55 AM Re: UPDATE #2 chinagrl 07/12/05 09:55 AM Update.... Kimm 07/11/05 01:32 PM ANOTHER update.... Kimm 07/11/05 03:26 PM Re: Kimm, I've been there..... LittleLisa 07/11/05 04:03 PM I can't help but feel happy about this!! epa_ginger 07/11/05 03:35 PM Thank you all..... Kimm 07/11/05 07:51 PM Kimm, I missed this whole thing... Augie 07/11/05 07:58 PM Re: Kimm, I missed this whole thing...Me too! doubletrouble 07/11/05 08:49 PM Aww Kimm... chinagrl 07/11/05 02:57 PM Re: Update.... Shell Marr 07/11/05 02:30 PM Urgh!!!! Linz 07/11/05 02:25 PM Re: Urgh!!!! Lana_Marie 07/11/05 08:14 PM OK, I have to say something to defend my Gender TommyNY 07/12/05 06:38 AM I'm with Tommy... chinagrl 07/12/05 06:45 AM Re: I'm with Tommy... Lana_Marie 07/12/05 06:56 AM Re: I'm with Tommy... TommyNY 07/12/05 06:59 AM Re: I'm with Tommy... Sara-Sage 07/12/05 09:53 AM I feel sick for you.... epa_ginger 07/11/05 01:55 PM Oh Kimm... Sara-Sage 07/11/05 01:54 PM Re: Hugs michele 07/11/05 01:36 PM Re: Hugs Kimm 07/11/05 01:49 PM Re: Hugs Sara-Sage 07/11/05 01:54 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... 07/11/05 01:09 PM Hrmph! Men!! Stephie 07/11/05 12:54 PM Re: Don't Know What to Do.... BL 07/11/05 12:08 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... nicky 07/11/05 11:42 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Lana_Marie 07/11/05 11:49 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Sara-Sage 07/11/05 11:31 AM I have to say I agree with Tina... Dr. Spice Yamin 07/12/05 02:44 PM I agree with Tina & Ashley TommyNY 07/12/05 03:37 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Kimm 07/11/05 12:12 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... TommyNY 07/11/05 12:17 PM I dunno... chinagrl 07/11/05 12:21 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Sara-Sage 07/11/05 12:14 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... TommyNY 07/11/05 12:18 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Kimm 07/11/05 12:18 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Sara-Sage 07/11/05 12:21 PM I dated a guy like this Snow for Sarala 07/11/05 11:27 AM I'm always for being open/honest/up front... ecmmbm 07/11/05 10:39 AM I gotta follow this up... ecmmbm 07/11/05 11:39 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/11/05 10:35 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Snowy 07/11/05 10:29 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... RachelT 07/11/05 10:28 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... michele 07/11/05 11:38 AM I don't understand..... Kimm 07/11/05 12:16 PM Oh, man.... epa_ginger 07/11/05 12:36 PM Re: I don't understand..... Snowy 07/11/05 12:23 PM See now THAT... chinagrl 07/11/05 12:23 PM

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