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Re: Oh, no!!       07/12/05 12:58 PM Edit Reply Quote AmandaPanda, J.D. Reged: 04/26/04 Posts: 1490 Loc: New York, New York Thanks for your words. Yeah, the phone thing is paricularly hard when he's in London and I'm in NYC. 5 hour time difference means one of us is usually at work and the other one either just woke up or needs to go to bed. We keep talking and we just don't know what to do. He takes full responsibility for everything, admits he's being unreasonable, but offers no solution. I don't want to go into any more detail and hijack Kimm's thread, so I'll end here. My situation is so similar to hers anyway that I'm just going to take all the replies to her as if they were to me. My man is special and I love him dearly, and I know he loves me. I just need us to have some sort of plan if we're going to continue doing the long-distance thing. It's been two years like this, and I need to figure out what I'm doing after I graduate from law school. I tell him what I need him to say, and he says, "It's not going to work like that -- you can't just put words in my mouth and have me repeat them -- our relationship isn't going to evolve that way." Uh, why not? Anyway, I've called him out and said that maybe he's trying to back away slowly, like he wants to break up, and he says no. So I don't know. Boys are cryptic. And not to toot my own horn, but I'm a relatively good-looking girl, sucessful, funny, etc, and I get hit on constantly when I go out. It's not like I don't have other (more convenient) options. But I just want him. Likewise for him -- He's cute and has a great job (finance), is a really well-rounded person (pianist, volunteers), and we share the same faith, which is hugely important to me. I know that he could have another girl easily. But we are both so incredibly weird in similar ways, I don't know if there could ever be other people for us. You know? Bah. Boys are annoying. -------------------- Amanda I live in the Big Apple, but I don't eat the skin Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Don't Know What To Do..... Kimm 07/11/05 10:17 AM UPDATE #3 Kimm 07/12/05 06:30 PM A good plan..... epa_ginger 07/12/05 06:35 PM UPDATE #2 Kimm 07/12/05 09:45 AM Re: UPDATE #2 Snowy 07/12/05 12:11 PM Kimm Sara-Sage 07/12/05 10:09 AM Hmm... Cara4503 07/12/05 10:01 AM Am I Crazy?? Kimm 07/12/05 10:19 AM This is tough!!! epa_ginger 07/12/05 12:38 PM epa_ginger Kimm 07/12/05 01:50 PM Yep... epa_ginger 07/12/05 02:15 PM Re: Yep... AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/12/05 02:23 PM Re: Yep... epa_ginger 07/12/05 02:27 PM Re: This is tough!!! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/12/05 12:42 PM Re: This is tough!!! Jennifer Rose 07/12/05 02:06 PM Oh, no!! epa_ginger 07/12/05 12:49 PM For Kimm Snow for Sarala 07/12/05 01:09 PM Re: Oh, no!! AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/12/05 12:58 PM You're not crazy! Cara4503 07/12/05 11:05 AM No - the deciding factor is commitment ecmmbm 07/12/05 10:52 AM I agree with Michele... Linz 07/12/05 10:58 AM Re: I agree with Michele... chinagrl 07/12/05 11:05 AM Re: Am I Crazy?? michele 07/12/05 10:52 AM Re: Am I Crazy?? chinagrl 07/12/05 10:35 AM Re: UPDATE #2 Shell Marr 07/12/05 09:55 AM Re: UPDATE #2 chinagrl 07/12/05 09:55 AM Update.... Kimm 07/11/05 01:32 PM ANOTHER update.... Kimm 07/11/05 03:26 PM Re: Kimm, I've been there..... LittleLisa 07/11/05 04:03 PM I can't help but feel happy about this!! epa_ginger 07/11/05 03:35 PM Thank you all..... Kimm 07/11/05 07:51 PM Kimm, I missed this whole thing... Augie 07/11/05 07:58 PM Re: Kimm, I missed this whole thing...Me too! doubletrouble 07/11/05 08:49 PM Aww Kimm... chinagrl 07/11/05 02:57 PM Re: Update.... Shell Marr 07/11/05 02:30 PM Urgh!!!! Linz 07/11/05 02:25 PM Re: Urgh!!!! Lana_Marie 07/11/05 08:14 PM OK, I have to say something to defend my Gender TommyNY 07/12/05 06:38 AM I'm with Tommy... chinagrl 07/12/05 06:45 AM Re: I'm with Tommy... Lana_Marie 07/12/05 06:56 AM Re: I'm with Tommy... TommyNY 07/12/05 06:59 AM Re: I'm with Tommy... Sara-Sage 07/12/05 09:53 AM I feel sick for you.... epa_ginger 07/11/05 01:55 PM Oh Kimm... Sara-Sage 07/11/05 01:54 PM Re: Hugs michele 07/11/05 01:36 PM Re: Hugs Kimm 07/11/05 01:49 PM Re: Hugs Sara-Sage 07/11/05 01:54 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... 07/11/05 01:09 PM Hrmph! Men!! Stephie 07/11/05 12:54 PM Re: Don't Know What to Do.... BL 07/11/05 12:08 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... nicky 07/11/05 11:42 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Lana_Marie 07/11/05 11:49 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Sara-Sage 07/11/05 11:31 AM I have to say I agree with Tina... Dr. Spice Yamin 07/12/05 02:44 PM I agree with Tina & Ashley TommyNY 07/12/05 03:37 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Kimm 07/11/05 12:12 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... TommyNY 07/11/05 12:17 PM I dunno... chinagrl 07/11/05 12:21 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Sara-Sage 07/11/05 12:14 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... TommyNY 07/11/05 12:18 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Kimm 07/11/05 12:18 PM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Sara-Sage 07/11/05 12:21 PM I dated a guy like this Snow for Sarala 07/11/05 11:27 AM I'm always for being open/honest/up front... ecmmbm 07/11/05 10:39 AM I gotta follow this up... ecmmbm 07/11/05 11:39 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... AmandaPanda, J.D. 07/11/05 10:35 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... Snowy 07/11/05 10:29 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... RachelT 07/11/05 10:28 AM Re: Don't Know What To Do..... michele 07/11/05 11:38 AM I don't understand..... Kimm 07/11/05 12:16 PM Oh, man.... epa_ginger 07/11/05 12:36 PM Re: I don't understand..... Snowy 07/11/05 12:23 PM See now THAT... chinagrl 07/11/05 12:23 PM

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