Re: Whats your story?
06/06/05 12:32 PM
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Well Ash, you know my story pretty much as well as I do, but for anyone else who is interested ...
I've known my bf for about 10 years. I was 14 when I met him; he's my older brother's best friend. We were just friends, or even just acquaintances, for more than 6 years. My ex, who was never jealous of anyone ever (he really didn't care too much about me or our relationship) was the first one to point out bf's apparently obvious attraction to me. I was oblivious. When the ex and I were in the middle of a long goodbye, my bf basically swooped in and wooed me. I was VERY resistant at first -- tried breaking up with him 3 times in the first few weeks -- and my brother wasn't thrilled with the whole idea either. But, we couldn't seem to stay away from each other. We had a VERY rough first year, as I was in my senior year of college and he was 4 hours away. I was dealing with exbf drama, and sorority drama, and freaking out about applying to law school, etc. It was ugly. But, we managed to pull through. When I graduated we were finally really exclusive and "officially" together. It was great, until he moved 4 months later. He's been in London now for almost 2 years. When he left, we just said we'd see where things went. We didn't promise forever or anything. Well, things have gone really nicely. Even though I miss him, our relationship works for us. We've visited 7 different countries since he's moved, and that's been great fun. I spent last summer there with him, and it was wonderful. And, I'm so amazingly busy with law school that I can't imagine having to fit him into my daily schedule too. I barely go home, except to sleep and shower. So, for now it's working. Obviously I want him to move home, or I want to move there, somtime soon. But, for now, we're just figuring out what we both want and how we can both be happy. So, we'll see.
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Amanda
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