Good grief, Girlfriend! Is this what they call "life in the fast lane"? You always seem to have more than your share, for some reason. It's too much! Really, even for a young chick like you, it's TOO MUCH.
You know that old adage -- two steps forward, one step back? If it were me, that's what I'd do. I'd take a step back. You have SOOOO much going on in your life right now, I think you need to step back. I'd get myself a full-time job, find myself a nice little inexpensive apartment, get myself settled somewhere, and maybe take some night courses at school.
If you really lost your girlfriend, then she didn't care enough to maintain her relationship with you. If she really cares, Steph, she'll come back. Be patient.
If Adrian wants to move back to England, a temporary absense might be a good thing.
If school isn't working out for you right now, it's because your mind is elsewhere and you can't focus. You can always go back full-time later, when things settle down for you. I returned to school 12 years after I graduated from high school, after I was stable and working full time and could afford school and a mortgage. It was more fun the second time around, and I ended up getting all As.
Keep up the exercise; it's important for your health and well-being and relieves the stress. If you're not losing weight right now, you will in time. That issue is just SOOO not important at this time in your life, when you have so much else going on. The weight will adjust, I promise you, once you get the stress level -- and your life -- under control and can focus more attention on the calories.
It seems to me that you need to take care of YOU. I found that when I do that, everything else falls into place.
{{{{BIG Hugs}}}}
Bevvy
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