Ah, I wound up with a new bf Didn't want one, but I also realize that you have to go with what happens, if something feels right you have to go with it. This guy is so great for me! He is such a sweetheart and is everything that I had missing in previous relationships. I am being very careful to keep my own life though, don't want to get sucked into just being 'the second half' again. I am taking him to meet my parents on Easter *crossing fingers* I have been busy with work and school, too. I have calmed down my party girl life alittle, it was getting to be too much for me and my IBS! I try to stick to only having late nights on the weekends now and have been feeling much better. I have been lurking almost everyday though!