Skirt below the knees...not to the floor. nothing flashy. Think a plain old curdory skirt. For a top I wear a nice...not fitted...top. Must be below elbows. Cotton tees are covered with a vest if I wear one. Cotton tees are too tight and well show your bust too much!
No bright colors...no red...
no loud shoes either!
Getting the picture? there's nothing sexy about it!
My shirts cover me up past my neckbone.
no white shirts without something to cover my bust.
nothing is ever fitted.
If it is too stylish or too sexy...I don't buy it (except for at home!)
Personally I think it's beautiful. the only man that gets to see me in all ways is hubby! I love it!
Wow....i never though I would be proving to people that the way I dress is modest. LOL most people ask if I feel deprived. Honestly...I miss the attention I used to get when I wasn't religious and dressed a bit more fashionably. BUT i wouldn't change what hubby and I share for the world. there's much mor to it than the way I dress. it's everything about the way we live our lives! Everything is for the other person. It's a whole religion not just a dress code
it really is very modest indeed! I can't say I'm the model of perfection and that my modesty internally is where I want to be. But it's a work in progress, I didn't grow up this way, and I'm doing the best I can.
I hope i'm not offending anyone here. I just felt the need to defend myself and the way I dress. Skirts can be WAY sexy! But that's why I'm so careful with the ones I buy/wear out of the home. (Ok...now I'm starting to show you a part of myself I've never shown on the boards. Very personal! A bit hard to do...). I don't want to start a thread on this or to make a big deal of it. If you want more info. on this...e-mail me. Bev...I got your e-mail asking about a few things. I've been in migraine mode for days now so I haven't responded to any e-mails in a long time. I will respond asap.
Anyway...thanks for reading this. And for reminding me why I am so careful with what I wear *hugs* (I feel soooo conspicous and self conscious. Oh my!)
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