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PAULA!
      02/26/05 02:53 AM
Sara-Sage

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Yes, our mom's are similar. Wow.

My mom has always given me grief about my weight. I'm very thin and every single time she sees me she looks me over from top to bottom and says that I must not be eating enough and that she's so worried about me. But a few years back I was 20 lbs heavier and she kept telling me to excercise more and that I was getting too "content". My dad's just as bad and called me a cow when I gained that extra weight. I was having a talk about it with my mom on the phone and I could hear him in the background going "moo, moo". DUH! Grow up there parents. Anyhow, they will never ever be happy with me. There's always something wrong and their love is not unconditional.

Another thing she does is comment how my tops are way too tight. I have big enough boobs (with a small frame) and don't like to wear baggy tops. I like tight tops. I don't dress sleazy ever but she always stares at me like I'm being so daring. She bought me two sweaters for Christmas and made me buy them 2 sizes larger so they would be "looser" in the bust area. Oh come on! I have asked my ex-BF so many times if some of my clothes are too revealing and she says "hell no". That if I have it I should flaunt it and that is why some women get boob jobs. Boobs are good.

That's so hurtful that your parents couldn't stay long enough to see your wedding. I'm so sorry. Come on now!

Your husband is wise and I think I will follow that advice. They have no emotional support to give me for whatever reason.

It just kills me that my ex-BF's family took me in unconditionally and loved me to death while my own parents just see flaws in me. I will miss his family and I started thinking of them as my own. I always saw his grandma as my own and she even said that I could call her grandma and she considered me a grand daughter. His family is very touchy fely and I always got lots of hugs from them. I will miss that.

Oh well. That's what my friends are for. They also give me lots of hugs. I have no problem asking them for a hug if I need one.

As always thanks so much Paula.

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* I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 02:07 AM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
daliatree
02/25/05 06:24 PM
* TINA!!!
Sheri01
02/26/05 12:46 AM
* SHERI!
Sara-Sage
02/26/05 02:44 AM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:29 PM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
ptillen
02/24/05 02:24 PM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:56 AM
* Thanks everyone... I'm WAAAAY better.
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 09:56 AM
* Re: Thanks everyone... I'm WAAAAY better.
doubletrouble
02/24/05 05:48 PM
* A little behind the times here....
Snow for Sarala
02/24/05 11:24 AM
* Thanks Ruchie -nt-
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:05 PM
* Wow, what a nice surprise
Augie
02/24/05 10:30 AM
* Re: Wow, what a nice surprise
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:57 AM
* Re: Wow, what a nice surprise
NikkiM
02/25/05 12:59 PM
* Tina, how are things today?
Snow for Sarala
02/25/05 12:08 PM
* I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 03:59 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
ptillen
02/25/05 09:22 PM
* PAULA!
Sara-Sage
02/26/05 02:53 AM
* I feel so terrible for you Sara!
Lana_Marie
02/26/05 08:01 PM
* Re: I feel so terrible for you Sara!
Sara-Sage
02/26/05 08:30 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Natalie1985
02/25/05 06:00 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:23 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!

02/25/05 04:31 PM
* Stand Firm, SS!
Bevvy
02/25/05 04:24 PM
* Re: Stand Firm, SS!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:25 PM
* Bev you are an inspiration.....
Natalie1985
02/25/05 06:05 PM
* Re: Listen to Bev, she is right !!
gigi
02/25/05 04:37 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
LittleLisa
02/25/05 04:13 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 04:18 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Angela E.
02/25/05 05:46 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:29 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
doubletrouble
02/25/05 04:35 PM
* Re: Wow, what a nice surprise
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 11:51 AM
* Ahhhh, Tina
BL
02/24/05 08:01 AM
* Re: Ahhhh, Tina
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:06 PM
* Hi Tina!
RachelT
02/24/05 07:35 AM
* Rachel
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:09 PM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Kimm
02/24/05 07:14 AM
* Kim
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:12 PM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
AmandaPanda, J.D.
02/24/05 06:28 AM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sheri01
02/24/05 06:09 AM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:15 PM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Yoda (formerly Hans)
02/24/05 05:58 AM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Vicam
02/24/05 05:47 AM
* Tina
atomic rose
02/24/05 04:20 AM
* Casey
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 04:42 AM
* Ugh...
atomic rose
02/24/05 06:30 AM
* Casey
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:17 PM
* Re: Ugh...
Dr. Spice Yamin
02/24/05 06:34 AM
* Tina

02/24/05 04:05 AM
* Re: Tina
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 04:13 AM
* oh tina.....
Natalie1985
02/24/05 02:14 AM
* Re: oh tina.....
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 03:05 AM
* Re: oh tina.....
michele
02/24/05 07:14 AM

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