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Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
      02/24/05 02:24 PM
ptillen

Reged: 06/27/04
Posts: 406
Loc: Milwaukee WI

Well, you did it. It isn't surprising that the reaction wasn't violent consternation but sadness, apologies, promises to change- which of course makes it harder, doesn't it? Yup, been there. It's because he may be dysfunctional, but he loves you. But guess what? that isn't enough.
Of course, it won't change, but you know that. I'm so glad as I read your post that you're not backing down off your decision to leave the relationship; but I'm not sure what there is to feel right now, relief that he admits it? Don't know, and I don't know if that'd be helpful anyway. Don't tell yourself what to feel, just feel whatever you feel, don't fight it, don't pretend you don't feel it.
And remember that it won't last forever. It'll be done and you'll feel better and be glad you did it.

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* I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 02:07 AM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
daliatree
02/25/05 06:24 PM
* TINA!!!
Sheri01
02/26/05 12:46 AM
* SHERI!
Sara-Sage
02/26/05 02:44 AM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:29 PM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
ptillen
02/24/05 02:24 PM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:56 AM
* Thanks everyone... I'm WAAAAY better.
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 09:56 AM
* Re: Thanks everyone... I'm WAAAAY better.
doubletrouble
02/24/05 05:48 PM
* A little behind the times here....
Snow for Sarala
02/24/05 11:24 AM
* Thanks Ruchie -nt-
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:05 PM
* Wow, what a nice surprise
Augie
02/24/05 10:30 AM
* Re: Wow, what a nice surprise
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:57 AM
* Re: Wow, what a nice surprise
NikkiM
02/25/05 12:59 PM
* Tina, how are things today?
Snow for Sarala
02/25/05 12:08 PM
* I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 03:59 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
ptillen
02/25/05 09:22 PM
* PAULA!
Sara-Sage
02/26/05 02:53 AM
* I feel so terrible for you Sara!
Lana_Marie
02/26/05 08:01 PM
* Re: I feel so terrible for you Sara!
Sara-Sage
02/26/05 08:30 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Natalie1985
02/25/05 06:00 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:23 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!

02/25/05 04:31 PM
* Stand Firm, SS!
Bevvy
02/25/05 04:24 PM
* Re: Stand Firm, SS!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:25 PM
* Bev you are an inspiration.....
Natalie1985
02/25/05 06:05 PM
* Re: Listen to Bev, she is right !!
gigi
02/25/05 04:37 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
LittleLisa
02/25/05 04:13 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 04:18 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Angela E.
02/25/05 05:46 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
Sara-Sage
02/25/05 06:29 PM
* Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks!
doubletrouble
02/25/05 04:35 PM
* Re: Wow, what a nice surprise
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 11:51 AM
* Ahhhh, Tina
BL
02/24/05 08:01 AM
* Re: Ahhhh, Tina
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:06 PM
* Hi Tina!
RachelT
02/24/05 07:35 AM
* Rachel
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:09 PM
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Kimm
02/24/05 07:14 AM
* Kim
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:12 PM
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AmandaPanda, J.D.
02/24/05 06:28 AM
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Sheri01
02/24/05 06:09 AM
* Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it....
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:15 PM
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Yoda (formerly Hans)
02/24/05 05:58 AM
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Vicam
02/24/05 05:47 AM
* Tina
atomic rose
02/24/05 04:20 AM
* Casey
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 04:42 AM
* Ugh...
atomic rose
02/24/05 06:30 AM
* Casey
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 12:17 PM
* Re: Ugh...
Dr. Spice Yamin
02/24/05 06:34 AM
* Tina

02/24/05 04:05 AM
* Re: Tina
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 04:13 AM
* oh tina.....
Natalie1985
02/24/05 02:14 AM
* Re: oh tina.....
Sara-Sage
02/24/05 03:05 AM
* Re: oh tina.....
michele
02/24/05 07:14 AM

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