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Hi Tina!       02/24/05 07:35 AM Edit Reply Quote RachelT Reged: 07/01/04 Posts: 2350 Loc: Minnesota I'm sorry your break-up didn't go so well... breaking up is hard to do! It's unfortunate though that he took it so bad. I'm wondering Tina, do you still feel like you did the right thing? What I mean is, are you comfortable with it, even though it was hard? This may or may not help you, but reading your post today reminded me of the one and only time I broke up with someone (which hardly ever happened because I was always on the receiving end of break-ups) that ended on a bad note... Because of his mental abuse, I dread the day that I see him again. I had pushed it so far deep into my mind that I had forgotten about it when you had posted your plans for your break-up... I was dating this guy who was the most controlling, self-centered, egotistical jerk I had ever met. Not to mention the fact that he was a complete idiot and thought of himself as a genius! We had only dated for 6 months, but I knew that I couldn't live with him for the rest of my life let alone another minute and that breaking up was gonna be difficult, because I knew he would cry and blame everything on me. When the time came, he cried like a baby and I left him feeling like I had been punched in the gut. As hard as it was, I took comfort in the fact that it was the best thing I could have done for myself. If it wasn't for the fact that he owed me a ton of money, of which I had to take legal action to get posession of, I would have walked away from him and never looked back. It was difficult at first, but each day got a little easier. To my surprise, my perseverance paid off later that year when I met Eric, who turned out to be my soul mate. I realize you've been with this guy for a really long time and I know you're hurting right now and that's normal, but it will get easier Tina. Just take each day one at a time. HUGS! -------------------- ~ Rachel (IBS-C) If life hands you lemons, make lemonade!! Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... Sara-Sage 02/24/05 02:07 AM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... daliatree 02/25/05 06:24 PM TINA!!! Sheri01 02/26/05 12:46 AM SHERI! Sara-Sage 02/26/05 02:44 AM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... Sara-Sage 02/25/05 06:29 PM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... ptillen 02/24/05 02:24 PM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... Sara-Sage 02/25/05 06:56 AM Thanks everyone... I'm WAAAAY better. Sara-Sage 02/24/05 09:56 AM Re: Thanks everyone... I'm WAAAAY better. doubletrouble 02/24/05 05:48 PM A little behind the times here.... Snow for Sarala 02/24/05 11:24 AM Thanks Ruchie -nt- Sara-Sage 02/24/05 12:05 PM Wow, what a nice surprise Augie 02/24/05 10:30 AM Re: Wow, what a nice surprise Sara-Sage 02/25/05 06:57 AM Re: Wow, what a nice surprise NikkiM 02/25/05 12:59 PM Tina, how are things today? Snow for Sarala 02/25/05 12:08 PM I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! Sara-Sage 02/25/05 03:59 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! ptillen 02/25/05 09:22 PM PAULA! Sara-Sage 02/26/05 02:53 AM I feel so terrible for you Sara! Lana_Marie 02/26/05 08:01 PM Re: I feel so terrible for you Sara! Sara-Sage 02/26/05 08:30 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! Natalie1985 02/25/05 06:00 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! Sara-Sage 02/25/05 06:23 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! 02/25/05 04:31 PM Stand Firm, SS! Bevvy 02/25/05 04:24 PM Re: Stand Firm, SS! Sara-Sage 02/25/05 06:25 PM Bev you are an inspiration..... Natalie1985 02/25/05 06:05 PM Re: Listen to Bev, she is right !! gigi 02/25/05 04:37 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! LittleLisa 02/25/05 04:13 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! Sara-Sage 02/25/05 04:18 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! Angela E. 02/25/05 05:46 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! Sara-Sage 02/25/05 06:29 PM Re: I'm sorry, but my mom sucks! doubletrouble 02/25/05 04:35 PM Re: Wow, what a nice surprise Sara-Sage 02/24/05 11:51 AM Ahhhh, Tina BL 02/24/05 08:01 AM Re: Ahhhh, Tina Sara-Sage 02/24/05 12:06 PM Hi Tina! RachelT 02/24/05 07:35 AM Rachel Sara-Sage 02/24/05 12:09 PM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... Kimm 02/24/05 07:14 AM Kim Sara-Sage 02/24/05 12:12 PM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... AmandaPanda, J.D. 02/24/05 06:28 AM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... Sheri01 02/24/05 06:09 AM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... Sara-Sage 02/24/05 12:15 PM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/24/05 05:58 AM Re: I said I wouldn't but I can't help it.... Vicam 02/24/05 05:47 AM Tina atomic rose 02/24/05 04:20 AM Casey Sara-Sage 02/24/05 04:42 AM Ugh... atomic rose 02/24/05 06:30 AM Casey Sara-Sage 02/24/05 12:17 PM Re: Ugh... Dr. Spice Yamin 02/24/05 06:34 AM Tina 02/24/05 04:05 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/24/05 04:13 AM oh tina..... Natalie1985 02/24/05 02:14 AM Re: oh tina..... Sara-Sage 02/24/05 03:05 AM Re: oh tina..... michele 02/24/05 07:14 AM

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