You are not a bad daughter Dalia, just concerned! Most people look the other way. You share yo ucare more by wanting to help. I go through this same thing with my family alot. Like my mom that drinks a bottle of champagne a night after being diagnosed with high blood pressure. best scenerio is that he comes around. He probably won't though , unless he feels really physically sick. Sad as it is, some people would rahter live 10 - 20 years shorter and eat junk that they love and not exercise. Really goes to show you how food and junk food is such a dangerous addiction. And you were right, you do not need to stand for that in your home. At the very LEAST he could have tried hiding it from you, eating the junk when you are not around. But, you do not want to strain your relationship with him anymore to keep the peace it seems. It sounds like it will be a hrad decision for you decide wether to back off, or keep trying. Good luck in whatever approach you take! And I think you can learn alot from Bev's story, we all can. Hugs to dalia! And Hugs Bevvy! You almost made me cry.