Now I'm going to have to come over there and shake him until his head pops off! You see what he's gonna make me do?? How about getting a nice juicy insurance policy on him, then him having an "accident?" That'll solve your money problems, I'll tell him what!  
Sigh! Isn't money terrible? It just brings out the worst in us, doesn't it. You're the star, cos you're on top of the finances!! He needs to be more aware of the cash flow situation and HE needs to be proactive about making sure your household is taken care of.
Can you go into arrears for a month, maybe put off a bill as a last resort? Do you have anything you can sell? Do you have some friends you can bring together to throw a rent party (everybody chips in like $20). How about a relative who can lend you money? Got a TV to pawn?
I've been there before and it's a rough spot as it is, but it's being compounded by uncaring BF jumping down your throat. Why can't more men be problem solvers?  You're doing a really good job keeping it all together, and I'm sending good thoughts your way. Take a really warm shower and clear your head. Can you go to the pet store and get some free puppy therapy?? Even pet store fish can be theraputic.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS!!!}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
If your BF needs a beating, I'll volunteer my services. I'm cheap, just a handful of imodium and I'm good to go. 
~nelly~
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