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HI Sara       02/16/05 09:26 AM Edit Reply Quote Harmony Reged: 01/08/05 Posts: 125 Not knowing you well at all, but seeing your list of issues with your SO, I would venture to say he had a borderline Personality disorder, and is not one easy to live with. Not easy at all when one is affected by stress that can be so harmful to your managing IBS. That's the reasons I left my husband of 14 years, of course now he would change all those things into a posititve to convince me to come home. But at this time, if I would return, it would undo months of therapy and healing for me. You might do some research on that disorder and realize that you have some options. And that you shouldn't rush into a relationship with anyone right yet. There is a book out called Walking on eggshells...it's excellant. But it also let's you understand that you can't change that type of behavior. You can work with it only to a degree, but you have to be a strong, healthy person to do it. You have only one responsiblity right now, and that is to get well, love yourself, and nuture the wonderful person inside. They call these type of partners "hoovers"..they suck the very joy and happiness out of you. And then blame you for not being up to more. I wish you the best....it's really up to you. It's your life and choices. Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Tina Kimm 02/15/05 10:55 AM THANK YOU, EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!! You guys ROCK! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:37 AM I'm late too... 02/16/05 03:52 PM Re: I'm late too... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 04:03 PM Sorry for the Late response ...... Natalie1985 02/16/05 10:20 AM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 10:41 AM My boy troubles...... Natalie1985 02/16/05 12:58 PM Re: My boy troubles...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 01:16 PM Re: My boy troubles...... cailin 02/16/05 02:31 PM Thanks guys..... Natalie1985 02/16/05 04:04 PM Natalie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 04:09 PM tina cailin 02/16/05 02:43 PM Re: tina Sara-Sage 02/16/05 03:24 PM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Luther Maze 02/16/05 11:35 AM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 12:11 PM Tina, we love and care about ya soo much.... Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 09:34 AM Tina, hope everything works out for the best. Thinking of you. --nt-- BL 02/16/05 08:51 AM You've gotten a lot of feedback already, but.. Augie 02/15/05 07:08 PM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... gigi 02/16/05 09:43 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 10:00 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... gigi 02/16/05 07:45 PM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Sara-Sage 02/17/05 03:51 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Luther Maze 02/17/05 06:59 AM Beth Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:13 AM HI Sara Harmony 02/16/05 09:26 AM I was thinking the same thing... Augie 02/16/05 07:15 AM Re: I was thinking the same thing... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:46 AM Tina. So much to say but.. doubletrouble 02/15/05 06:43 PM Re: Tina. So much to say but.. Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:15 AM Re: Tina Dr. Spice Yamin 02/15/05 06:22 PM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:18 AM Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:53 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... TommyNY 02/16/05 08:49 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:24 AM Tommy, you give the best advice! Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:51 AM Re: Tommy, you give the best advice! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:24 AM Re: Tommy, you give the best advice! TommyNY 02/16/05 08:59 AM Awww, thanks! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 09:02 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Niesan 02/16/05 04:49 AM Angie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:53 AM And if he can't, too bad for him! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:46 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Niesan 02/15/05 07:32 PM Angie00 Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:23 AM Re: Angie00 Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 07:36 AM Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:55 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... jenniferlynn 02/15/05 04:50 PM jenniferlynn Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:07 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:53 PM From The Other Side Bevvy 02/15/05 04:20 PM Re: From The Other Side Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:12 PM Re: Great new pic Bev! LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:26 PM Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:38 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:43 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 05:05 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... LittleLisa 02/16/05 06:09 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:44 PM Thanks Lisa! Bevvy 02/15/05 04:30 PM Re: Slapped? I think... LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:35 PM Re: Slapped? I think... Nelly 02/15/05 04:39 PM Re: Oh really? LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:45 PM Hi Tina Stephie 02/15/05 01:32 PM Steph Sara-Sage 02/15/05 03:28 PM Re: Steph Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/15/05 04:06 PM OMG!!! Stephie 02/15/05 03:31 PM Re: OMG!!! Sara-Sage 02/15/05 04:11 PM Hmm... Stephie 02/15/05 06:17 PM Re: Hmm... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:34 AM Not a laughing matter... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:21 PM Re: Not a laughing matter... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:15 PM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/15/05 04:08 PM HanSolo Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:27 PM Re: HanSolo Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/16/05 05:35 AM Alicia Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:58 AM Tina Sheri01 02/15/05 07:50 PM Sheri Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:30 AM Just emailed you Tina Sheri01 02/16/05 06:15 AM I emailed you back Sheri! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:03 AM Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:48 AM Re: Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:27 AM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:15 PM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/16/05 05:39 AM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:04 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Kimm 02/15/05 01:14 PM Kim Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:09 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... melitami 02/15/05 12:39 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:56 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Janey 02/15/05 12:38 PM Thanks so much Janey -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:57 PM P.S. Tina... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:16 PM Re: P.S. Tina... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:18 PM Re: P.S. Tina... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:23 PM Thanks SO MUCH Ruchie!!!!!!!! -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:25 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:08 PM Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:16 PM Re: Ruchie Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:18 PM Re: Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:20 PM Yes you should Tina! I hope you DO! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:28 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... ptillen 02/15/05 12:07 PM Oh Paula... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:24 PM Re: Oh Paula... ptillen 02/15/05 12:33 PM Re: Oh Paula... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 01:01 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... RachelT 02/15/05 11:59 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:02 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... RachelT 02/15/05 12:05 PM Thanks Rachel -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:28 PM {{{HUGS}}} Linz 02/15/05 11:57 AM Re: {{{HUGS}}} Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:01 PM Re: Tina mindyj 02/15/05 11:12 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:14 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:07 AM Re: Tina melitami 02/15/05 11:36 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:38 AM ((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))) Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 11:52 AM Re: ((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))) Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:55 AM Re: Tina Kimm 02/15/05 11:30 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:35 AM Re: Tina Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 10:59 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:07 AM Ditto that!! Nelly 02/15/05 11:05 AM Re: Ditto that!! Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:09 AM Tina, one more thing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 11:54 AM Re: Tina, one more thing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:03 PM

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