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Tina       02/15/05 07:50 PM Edit Reply Quote Sheri01 Reged: 04/19/04 Posts: 1731 Loc: New Jersey I am alittle late getting in on this thread. You have gotten alot of advice, and you seem to be heading in the right direction. I already told you before that I thought you should leave him as soon as you can, but I know these things can take time. Now that you are definate that you will and it is what you want (and there may be a new man), look for that apartment TOMORROW. OR as soon as humanly possible. Dragging this out is just going to drain you emotionly. Once you finally leave him behind you will be able to move on with your life. Make sure you don't spend another year with someone you are not happy with. And if this other guy is someone that you really want to be with, you don't want to lose him by him finding someone that IS available in the meantime, or thinking that you are stringing him along since you didn't break up yet (if he is 'waiting for you'. This is probably going to be the hardest thing to do in your life. I agree that you will probably never be able to be friends. But, you have friends that care about you, and once you start moving on you will be so happy with your new life that you will not be so upset about it. yeah it sucks for him, but he will one day meet someone and get over it. Maybe someone as Obsessive as he is and they will be a match made in heaven. He does not sound like a bad guy, just bad for you. Yo uare actually doing him a favor, he would probably rather be broken up with now rahter than five years from now or so, and I am sure that he would wnt the chance to be with someone that is in love with him. BUt, like Ruchie said, this will be his problem, and there is nothing you can do to ease his pain, you have to think of yourself first. Relationships are supposed to be part giviing, AND getting what you want. OR it is just charity. I know that my situation was NOWHERE near as intense as yours is, but I have faith taht you can do it! And you can feel free to email me if you want to talk some more, it is in my profile. or actually, I will email you with mine, the one I always use isn't in my profile cause it has my full name in it. good luck with everything! -------------------- -Sheri Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Tina Kimm 02/15/05 10:55 AM THANK YOU, EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!! You guys ROCK! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:37 AM I'm late too... 02/16/05 03:52 PM Re: I'm late too... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 04:03 PM Sorry for the Late response ...... Natalie1985 02/16/05 10:20 AM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 10:41 AM My boy troubles...... Natalie1985 02/16/05 12:58 PM Re: My boy troubles...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 01:16 PM Re: My boy troubles...... cailin 02/16/05 02:31 PM Thanks guys..... Natalie1985 02/16/05 04:04 PM Natalie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 04:09 PM tina cailin 02/16/05 02:43 PM Re: tina Sara-Sage 02/16/05 03:24 PM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Luther Maze 02/16/05 11:35 AM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 12:11 PM Tina, we love and care about ya soo much.... Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 09:34 AM Tina, hope everything works out for the best. Thinking of you. --nt-- BL 02/16/05 08:51 AM You've gotten a lot of feedback already, but.. Augie 02/15/05 07:08 PM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... gigi 02/16/05 09:43 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 10:00 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... gigi 02/16/05 07:45 PM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Sara-Sage 02/17/05 03:51 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Luther Maze 02/17/05 06:59 AM Beth Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:13 AM HI Sara Harmony 02/16/05 09:26 AM I was thinking the same thing... Augie 02/16/05 07:15 AM Re: I was thinking the same thing... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:46 AM Tina. So much to say but.. doubletrouble 02/15/05 06:43 PM Re: Tina. So much to say but.. Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:15 AM Re: Tina Dr. Spice Yamin 02/15/05 06:22 PM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:18 AM Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:53 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... TommyNY 02/16/05 08:49 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:24 AM Tommy, you give the best advice! Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:51 AM Re: Tommy, you give the best advice! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:24 AM Re: Tommy, you give the best advice! TommyNY 02/16/05 08:59 AM Awww, thanks! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 09:02 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Niesan 02/16/05 04:49 AM Angie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:53 AM And if he can't, too bad for him! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:46 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Niesan 02/15/05 07:32 PM Angie00 Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:23 AM Re: Angie00 Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 07:36 AM Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:55 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... jenniferlynn 02/15/05 04:50 PM jenniferlynn Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:07 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:53 PM From The Other Side Bevvy 02/15/05 04:20 PM Re: From The Other Side Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:12 PM Re: Great new pic Bev! LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:26 PM Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:38 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:43 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 05:05 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... LittleLisa 02/16/05 06:09 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:44 PM Thanks Lisa! Bevvy 02/15/05 04:30 PM Re: Slapped? I think... LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:35 PM Re: Slapped? I think... Nelly 02/15/05 04:39 PM Re: Oh really? LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:45 PM Hi Tina Stephie 02/15/05 01:32 PM Steph Sara-Sage 02/15/05 03:28 PM Re: Steph Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/15/05 04:06 PM OMG!!! Stephie 02/15/05 03:31 PM Re: OMG!!! Sara-Sage 02/15/05 04:11 PM Hmm... Stephie 02/15/05 06:17 PM Re: Hmm... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:34 AM Not a laughing matter... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:21 PM Re: Not a laughing matter... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:15 PM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/15/05 04:08 PM HanSolo Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:27 PM Re: HanSolo Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/16/05 05:35 AM Alicia Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:58 AM Tina Sheri01 02/15/05 07:50 PM Sheri Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:30 AM Just emailed you Tina Sheri01 02/16/05 06:15 AM I emailed you back Sheri! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:03 AM Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:48 AM Re: Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:27 AM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:15 PM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/16/05 05:39 AM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:04 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Kimm 02/15/05 01:14 PM Kim Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:09 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... melitami 02/15/05 12:39 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:56 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Janey 02/15/05 12:38 PM Thanks so much Janey -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:57 PM P.S. Tina... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:16 PM Re: P.S. Tina... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:18 PM Re: P.S. Tina... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:23 PM Thanks SO MUCH Ruchie!!!!!!!! -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:25 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:08 PM Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:16 PM Re: Ruchie Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:18 PM Re: Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:20 PM Yes you should Tina! I hope you DO! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:28 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... ptillen 02/15/05 12:07 PM Oh Paula... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:24 PM Re: Oh Paula... ptillen 02/15/05 12:33 PM Re: Oh Paula... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 01:01 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... RachelT 02/15/05 11:59 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:02 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... RachelT 02/15/05 12:05 PM Thanks Rachel -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:28 PM {{{HUGS}}} Linz 02/15/05 11:57 AM Re: {{{HUGS}}} Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:01 PM Re: Tina mindyj 02/15/05 11:12 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:14 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:07 AM Re: Tina melitami 02/15/05 11:36 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:38 AM ((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))) Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 11:52 AM Re: ((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))) Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:55 AM Re: Tina Kimm 02/15/05 11:30 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:35 AM Re: Tina Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 10:59 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:07 AM Ditto that!! Nelly 02/15/05 11:05 AM Re: Ditto that!! Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:09 AM Tina, one more thing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 11:54 AM Re: Tina, one more thing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:03 PM

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