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Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...       02/15/05 07:32 PM Edit Reply Quote Niesan Reged: 01/18/05 Posts: 22 Hi, I know I dont know you but I just felt I needed to tell you something. It took me a while to understand what I was looking for in a relationship. Love is # 1 and I can understand what you mean by saying you still love him. But hear is the thing,more than love it has to do with understanding and supporting each other. Living with IBS can be embarassing and stressfull. You need support from your loved ones because it is difficult to have a normal life. What if your are in Europe on a vacation you planned for many years but on the day you planned to go to a specific place an attack comes? will he be angry? argue? blame you for something you have absolutely no control over? Then there is the part that he make you feel like a slob?no relationship in this world is perfect and we all have things to change but overall you should be in a relationship in which you make each other feel good and important because you are important and deserve to be happy. Then is the fact that after 10 years, do you think it will get better or worst?We all argue about the shoes being in the wrong place,why did you leave the cup in the sink. But it should not be the center theme or that you actually cleaning up because you want to avoid confrontation or stress. After years of being with someone I can understand that the passion might not be the same but in turn it becomes a feeling in which you are comfortable with each other and most of all bring each other peace. With all that said men perceive things different than we do. He might probably has the same feeling as 10 years ago but he is oblivious to how you feel or what are your thoughts in the relationship. I would try talking to him about how you fell and where is your relationship going. This will give you a better idea as to what to do and how do you really view your future with or without him. I hope with this I am not invading your privacy. I read this thread while I was looking for something else. Wish you the best. Angie00 Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Tina Kimm 02/15/05 10:55 AM THANK YOU, EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!! You guys ROCK! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:37 AM I'm late too... 02/16/05 03:52 PM Re: I'm late too... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 04:03 PM Sorry for the Late response ...... Natalie1985 02/16/05 10:20 AM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 10:41 AM My boy troubles...... Natalie1985 02/16/05 12:58 PM Re: My boy troubles...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 01:16 PM Re: My boy troubles...... cailin 02/16/05 02:31 PM Thanks guys..... Natalie1985 02/16/05 04:04 PM Natalie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 04:09 PM tina cailin 02/16/05 02:43 PM Re: tina Sara-Sage 02/16/05 03:24 PM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Luther Maze 02/16/05 11:35 AM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 12:11 PM Tina, we love and care about ya soo much.... Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 09:34 AM Tina, hope everything works out for the best. Thinking of you. --nt-- BL 02/16/05 08:51 AM You've gotten a lot of feedback already, but.. Augie 02/15/05 07:08 PM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... gigi 02/16/05 09:43 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 10:00 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... gigi 02/16/05 07:45 PM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Sara-Sage 02/17/05 03:51 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Luther Maze 02/17/05 06:59 AM Beth Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:13 AM HI Sara Harmony 02/16/05 09:26 AM I was thinking the same thing... Augie 02/16/05 07:15 AM Re: I was thinking the same thing... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:46 AM Tina. So much to say but.. doubletrouble 02/15/05 06:43 PM Re: Tina. So much to say but.. Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:15 AM Re: Tina Dr. Spice Yamin 02/15/05 06:22 PM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:18 AM Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:53 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... TommyNY 02/16/05 08:49 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:24 AM Tommy, you give the best advice! Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:51 AM Re: Tommy, you give the best advice! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:24 AM Re: Tommy, you give the best advice! TommyNY 02/16/05 08:59 AM Awww, thanks! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 09:02 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Niesan 02/16/05 04:49 AM Angie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:53 AM And if he can't, too bad for him! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:46 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Niesan 02/15/05 07:32 PM Angie00 Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:23 AM Re: Angie00 Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 07:36 AM Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:55 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... jenniferlynn 02/15/05 04:50 PM jenniferlynn Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:07 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:53 PM From The Other Side Bevvy 02/15/05 04:20 PM Re: From The Other Side Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:12 PM Re: Great new pic Bev! LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:26 PM Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:38 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:43 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 05:05 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... LittleLisa 02/16/05 06:09 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:44 PM Thanks Lisa! Bevvy 02/15/05 04:30 PM Re: Slapped? I think... LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:35 PM Re: Slapped? I think... Nelly 02/15/05 04:39 PM Re: Oh really? LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:45 PM Hi Tina Stephie 02/15/05 01:32 PM Steph Sara-Sage 02/15/05 03:28 PM Re: Steph Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/15/05 04:06 PM OMG!!! Stephie 02/15/05 03:31 PM Re: OMG!!! Sara-Sage 02/15/05 04:11 PM Hmm... Stephie 02/15/05 06:17 PM Re: Hmm... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:34 AM Not a laughing matter... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:21 PM Re: Not a laughing matter... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:15 PM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/15/05 04:08 PM HanSolo Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:27 PM Re: HanSolo Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/16/05 05:35 AM Alicia Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:58 AM Tina Sheri01 02/15/05 07:50 PM Sheri Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:30 AM Just emailed you Tina Sheri01 02/16/05 06:15 AM I emailed you back Sheri! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:03 AM Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:48 AM Re: Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:27 AM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:15 PM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/16/05 05:39 AM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:04 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Kimm 02/15/05 01:14 PM Kim Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:09 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... melitami 02/15/05 12:39 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:56 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Janey 02/15/05 12:38 PM Thanks so much Janey -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:57 PM P.S. Tina... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:16 PM Re: P.S. Tina... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:18 PM Re: P.S. Tina... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:23 PM Thanks SO MUCH Ruchie!!!!!!!! -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:25 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:08 PM Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:16 PM Re: Ruchie Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:18 PM Re: Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:20 PM Yes you should Tina! I hope you DO! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:28 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... ptillen 02/15/05 12:07 PM Oh Paula... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:24 PM Re: Oh Paula... ptillen 02/15/05 12:33 PM Re: Oh Paula... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 01:01 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... RachelT 02/15/05 11:59 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:02 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... RachelT 02/15/05 12:05 PM Thanks Rachel -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:28 PM {{{HUGS}}} Linz 02/15/05 11:57 AM Re: {{{HUGS}}} Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:01 PM Re: Tina mindyj 02/15/05 11:12 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:14 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:07 AM Re: Tina melitami 02/15/05 11:36 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:38 AM ((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))) Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 11:52 AM Re: ((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))) Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:55 AM Re: Tina Kimm 02/15/05 11:30 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:35 AM Re: Tina Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 10:59 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:07 AM Ditto that!! Nelly 02/15/05 11:05 AM Re: Ditto that!! Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:09 AM Tina, one more thing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 11:54 AM Re: Tina, one more thing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:03 PM

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