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Hi Tina
      02/15/05 01:32 PM
Stephie

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Hi there,
I am so sorry that you are going through this, it really does sound like a nightmare.
I can relate to what you are going through with the clean freak thing, Adrian is exactly the same way. I have gotten like 200 times neater and more tidy since we have been together, but it is never good enough and it does make me feel bad a lot. I say this because it makes me so on edge sometimes that I can't imagine having that pressure AND all the other stuff you are talking about - I can't imagine being strong enough to take all that on a daily basis.
I remember you saying in other posts how your boyfriend is not supportive of you when you are sick and that just breaks my heart - I think that since feeling poorly is going to be a part of our lives (hopefully only in small, infrequent doses!!) and that the people we love have to learn to understand that and support us. You are such a lovely person and you really do deserve someone that will help you through the hard times.
I don't think I can knock any sense into you (although I'll do my best, hee hee) 'cause ultimately it is a decision you have to get clear in your own mind and then like a bandaid, pull it right off.. YOUCH!!.. and then it's over. If there is no passion left, if it is causing you more grief than happiness you will probably be able to improve your life more than you can probably even realise at this moment as soon as you can move away from someone like that.
He may not be able to be your friend now, he may never be able to be your friend and you probably just have to wrap your mind around that because it is a huge change, but it is one necessary if you don't want to carry on the way you have been for so long.

Don't forget that we will always be here to support you, no matter what and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel!!
Now rip that bandaid!!
**bug hugs**
--Steph

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* Tina
Kimm
02/15/05 10:55 AM
* THANK YOU, EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!! You guys ROCK!
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02/16/05 09:37 AM
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* Sorry for the Late response ......
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02/16/05 10:20 AM
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* My boy troubles......
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* Thanks guys.....
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02/16/05 04:04 PM
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* tina
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02/16/05 02:43 PM
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02/16/05 03:24 PM
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02/16/05 11:35 AM
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02/16/05 12:11 PM
* Tina, we love and care about ya soo much....
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02/16/05 09:34 AM
* Tina, hope everything works out for the best. Thinking of you. --nt--
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02/16/05 08:51 AM
* You've gotten a lot of feedback already, but..
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02/15/05 07:08 PM
* Re: Tina, its YOUR heart....
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02/17/05 06:59 AM
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02/16/05 02:13 AM
* HI Sara
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02/16/05 09:26 AM
* I was thinking the same thing...
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02/16/05 07:15 AM
* Re: I was thinking the same thing...
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02/16/05 07:46 AM
* Tina. So much to say but..
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02/15/05 06:43 PM
* Re: Tina. So much to say but..
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02/16/05 02:15 AM
* Re: Tina
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02/15/05 06:22 PM
* Re: Tina
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02/16/05 02:18 AM
* Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...
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02/15/05 11:53 AM
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02/16/05 08:49 AM
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02/16/05 09:24 AM
* Tommy, you give the best advice!
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02/16/05 08:59 AM
* Awww, thanks! n-t
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02/16/05 09:02 AM
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02/16/05 04:49 AM
* Angie
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02/16/05 07:53 AM
* And if he can't, too bad for him! n-t
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02/16/05 08:46 AM
* Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...
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02/15/05 07:32 PM
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02/16/05 07:36 AM
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02/16/05 07:55 AM
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02/15/05 04:50 PM
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02/15/05 05:07 PM
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02/15/05 04:53 PM
* From The Other Side
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02/15/05 04:20 PM
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02/15/05 05:12 PM
* Re: Great new pic Bev!
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02/15/05 04:26 PM
* Whenit comes to germs...
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02/15/05 04:38 PM
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02/15/05 04:43 PM
* Re: Whenit comes to germs...
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02/15/05 05:05 PM
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02/16/05 06:09 PM
* Re: Whenit comes to germs...
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02/16/05 08:44 PM
* Thanks Lisa!
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02/15/05 04:30 PM
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02/15/05 04:35 PM
* Re: Slapped? I think...
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02/15/05 04:39 PM
* Re: Oh really?
LittleLisa
02/15/05 04:45 PM
* Hi Tina
Stephie
02/15/05 01:32 PM
* Steph
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 03:28 PM
* Re: Steph
Yoda (formerly Hans)
02/15/05 04:06 PM
* OMG!!!
Stephie
02/15/05 03:31 PM
* Re: OMG!!!
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 04:11 PM
* Hmm...
Stephie
02/15/05 06:17 PM
* Re: Hmm...
Sara-Sage
02/16/05 02:34 AM
* Not a laughing matter...
Snow for Sarala
02/15/05 04:21 PM
* Re: Not a laughing matter...
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02/15/05 05:15 PM
* Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks ....
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02/15/05 04:08 PM
* HanSolo
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02/16/05 05:35 AM
* Alicia
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02/16/05 07:58 AM
* Tina
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02/15/05 07:50 PM
* Sheri
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02/16/05 02:30 AM
* Just emailed you Tina
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02/16/05 06:15 AM
* I emailed you back Sheri!
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02/16/05 08:03 AM
* Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t
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02/16/05 08:48 AM
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* Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks ....
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02/15/05 04:15 PM
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02/16/05 05:39 AM
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02/16/05 08:04 AM
* Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...
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02/15/05 01:14 PM
* Kim
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02/15/05 12:39 PM
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02/15/05 12:56 PM
* Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...
Janey
02/15/05 12:38 PM
* Thanks so much Janey -nt-
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 12:57 PM
* P.S. Tina...
Snow for Sarala
02/15/05 12:16 PM
* Re: P.S. Tina...
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02/15/05 12:18 PM
* Re: P.S. Tina...
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02/15/05 12:23 PM
* Thanks SO MUCH Ruchie!!!!!!!! -nt-
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02/15/05 12:25 PM
* Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...
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02/15/05 12:08 PM
* Ruchie
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02/15/05 12:16 PM
* Re: Ruchie
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02/15/05 12:18 PM
* Re: Ruchie
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 12:20 PM
* Yes you should Tina! I hope you DO! n-t
Snow for Sarala
02/15/05 12:28 PM
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02/15/05 12:07 PM
* Oh Paula...
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02/15/05 12:24 PM
* Re: Oh Paula...
ptillen
02/15/05 12:33 PM
* Re: Oh Paula...
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02/15/05 01:01 PM
* Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...
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02/15/05 11:59 AM
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02/15/05 12:02 PM
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02/15/05 12:05 PM
* Thanks Rachel -nt-
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 12:28 PM
* {{{HUGS}}}
Linz
02/15/05 11:57 AM
* Re: {{{HUGS}}}
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02/15/05 12:01 PM
* Re: Tina
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02/15/05 11:12 AM
* Re: Tina
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02/15/05 11:14 AM
* Re: Tina
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 11:07 AM
* Re: Tina
melitami
02/15/05 11:36 AM
* Re: Tina
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 11:38 AM
* ((((((((((((Tina))))))))))))
Snow for Sarala
02/15/05 11:52 AM
* Re: ((((((((((((Tina))))))))))))
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02/15/05 11:55 AM
* Re: Tina
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02/15/05 11:30 AM
* Re: Tina
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02/15/05 11:35 AM
* Re: Tina
Snow for Sarala
02/15/05 10:59 AM
* Re: Tina
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 11:07 AM
* Ditto that!!
Nelly
02/15/05 11:05 AM
* Re: Ditto that!!
Sara-Sage
02/15/05 11:09 AM
* Tina, one more thing...
Snow for Sarala
02/15/05 11:54 AM
* Re: Tina, one more thing...
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02/15/05 12:03 PM

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