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Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...       02/15/05 12:08 PM Edit Reply Quote Snow for Sarala Reged: 03/12/03 Posts: 5430 Loc: West Coast, USA Tina, don't worry about him! That's his problem...to worry about him. YOU need to worry about YOU! He has broken your heart SO many times. Telling you you're unintelligent (that makes me wanna smack some sens into him...you're VERY bright Tina...he's just blind!), a slob...oooooh that makes me mad! Men that are controling have issues. You don't need that! Don't you want to be someone healthy and encouraging? Someone that brings you tea EVERY time your tummy hurts? I'm not saying you want a guy that will follow you around and bring you tea every second (if that IS what you want--find him!) but this guy just soundsso mixed up and unsupportive. Who wants that? Yuck! It sounds to me like you know what you want to do. But when push comes to shove it's hard to do. And the truth is I can't understand as I've never been in a relationship for 10 years. I can say that I can't imagine being married to any of the guys I dated that were controlling, abusive in any way, or just plain not right for me! The only advice I can give you is to do what you know is right. Do what is best for TINA! Love isn't always enough. He may love you too...but if he can't show it in healthy, loving, giving ways...what good is it? Funny story: Hubby and I got 2 Chihuahuas before we got our wonderful lab/shepherd mix Shana. The Chis were Ben and Jerry. Ben was 8 Jerry 4. We did a trial rescue adoption with them. We had to give them back! Ben was VERY controling! He wanted to sleep on hubby's pillow. He owuld bite you if you didn't give him what he wanted. We liked Jerry...cute AND fun. But they came as a pair. Hubby and I talked about it a LOT. Ben's personality just brought us down. He would zap all our energy. We gave them back! Now we have Shana. The perfect dog for us. Fun loving, sweet, light hearted. She ADDS to our lives...instead of taking away from life. I hope that you find a man that will add to your life instead of zapping your energy. You're too precious to have anything less! Love ya girl! *hugs* -------------------- Formerly known as Ruchie Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Tina Kimm 02/15/05 10:55 AM THANK YOU, EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!!! You guys ROCK! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:37 AM I'm late too... 02/16/05 03:52 PM Re: I'm late too... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 04:03 PM Sorry for the Late response ...... Natalie1985 02/16/05 10:20 AM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 10:41 AM My boy troubles...... Natalie1985 02/16/05 12:58 PM Re: My boy troubles...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 01:16 PM Re: My boy troubles...... cailin 02/16/05 02:31 PM Thanks guys..... Natalie1985 02/16/05 04:04 PM Natalie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 04:09 PM tina cailin 02/16/05 02:43 PM Re: tina Sara-Sage 02/16/05 03:24 PM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Luther Maze 02/16/05 11:35 AM Re: Sorry for the Late response ...... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 12:11 PM Tina, we love and care about ya soo much.... Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 09:34 AM Tina, hope everything works out for the best. Thinking of you. --nt-- BL 02/16/05 08:51 AM You've gotten a lot of feedback already, but.. Augie 02/15/05 07:08 PM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... gigi 02/16/05 09:43 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 10:00 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... gigi 02/16/05 07:45 PM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Sara-Sage 02/17/05 03:51 AM Re: Tina, its YOUR heart.... Luther Maze 02/17/05 06:59 AM Beth Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:13 AM HI Sara Harmony 02/16/05 09:26 AM I was thinking the same thing... Augie 02/16/05 07:15 AM Re: I was thinking the same thing... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:46 AM Tina. So much to say but.. doubletrouble 02/15/05 06:43 PM Re: Tina. So much to say but.. Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:15 AM Re: Tina Dr. Spice Yamin 02/15/05 06:22 PM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:18 AM Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:53 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... TommyNY 02/16/05 08:49 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:24 AM Tommy, you give the best advice! Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:51 AM Re: Tommy, you give the best advice! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:24 AM Re: Tommy, you give the best advice! TommyNY 02/16/05 08:59 AM Awww, thanks! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 09:02 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Niesan 02/16/05 04:49 AM Angie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:53 AM And if he can't, too bad for him! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:46 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Niesan 02/15/05 07:32 PM Angie00 Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:23 AM Re: Angie00 Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 07:36 AM Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:55 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... jenniferlynn 02/15/05 04:50 PM jenniferlynn Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:07 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:53 PM From The Other Side Bevvy 02/15/05 04:20 PM Re: From The Other Side Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:12 PM Re: Great new pic Bev! LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:26 PM Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:38 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:43 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 05:05 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... LittleLisa 02/16/05 06:09 PM Re: Whenit comes to germs... Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:44 PM Thanks Lisa! Bevvy 02/15/05 04:30 PM Re: Slapped? I think... LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:35 PM Re: Slapped? I think... Nelly 02/15/05 04:39 PM Re: Oh really? LittleLisa 02/15/05 04:45 PM Hi Tina Stephie 02/15/05 01:32 PM Steph Sara-Sage 02/15/05 03:28 PM Re: Steph Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/15/05 04:06 PM OMG!!! Stephie 02/15/05 03:31 PM Re: OMG!!! Sara-Sage 02/15/05 04:11 PM Hmm... Stephie 02/15/05 06:17 PM Re: Hmm... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:34 AM Not a laughing matter... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:21 PM Re: Not a laughing matter... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:15 PM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/15/05 04:08 PM HanSolo Sara-Sage 02/15/05 05:27 PM Re: HanSolo Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/16/05 05:35 AM Alicia Sara-Sage 02/16/05 07:58 AM Tina Sheri01 02/15/05 07:50 PM Sheri Sara-Sage 02/16/05 02:30 AM Just emailed you Tina Sheri01 02/16/05 06:15 AM I emailed you back Sheri! Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:03 AM Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t Snow for Sarala 02/16/05 08:48 AM Re: Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t Sara-Sage 02/16/05 09:27 AM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 04:15 PM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Yoda (formerly Hans) 02/16/05 05:39 AM Re: For Tina and Steph and those with cleaning freaks .... Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:04 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Kimm 02/15/05 01:14 PM Kim Sara-Sage 02/16/05 08:09 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... melitami 02/15/05 12:39 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:56 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Janey 02/15/05 12:38 PM Thanks so much Janey -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:57 PM P.S. Tina... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:16 PM Re: P.S. Tina... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:18 PM Re: P.S. Tina... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:23 PM Thanks SO MUCH Ruchie!!!!!!!! -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:25 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:08 PM Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:16 PM Re: Ruchie Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:18 PM Re: Ruchie Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:20 PM Yes you should Tina! I hope you DO! n-t Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 12:28 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... ptillen 02/15/05 12:07 PM Oh Paula... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:24 PM Re: Oh Paula... ptillen 02/15/05 12:33 PM Re: Oh Paula... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 01:01 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... RachelT 02/15/05 11:59 AM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:02 PM Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing... RachelT 02/15/05 12:05 PM Thanks Rachel -nt- Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:28 PM {{{HUGS}}} Linz 02/15/05 11:57 AM Re: {{{HUGS}}} Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:01 PM Re: Tina mindyj 02/15/05 11:12 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:14 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:07 AM Re: Tina melitami 02/15/05 11:36 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:38 AM ((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))) Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 11:52 AM Re: ((((((((((((Tina)))))))))))) Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:55 AM Re: Tina Kimm 02/15/05 11:30 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:35 AM Re: Tina Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 10:59 AM Re: Tina Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:07 AM Ditto that!! Nelly 02/15/05 11:05 AM Re: Ditto that!! Sara-Sage 02/15/05 11:09 AM Tina, one more thing... Snow for Sarala 02/15/05 11:54 AM Re: Tina, one more thing... Sara-Sage 02/15/05 12:03 PM

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