Awww girl...I can so relate. After you are married for what seems like a long time (going on 14 years for us in May)things just aren't the same. My hubby got me all this candy and what do I do? I complain that he spent to much on it. He must be thinking, "I can't win". Us old married with children folks can only relate right! Hey, he bought you smokes! Look at it as a present