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Re: I'm really hurting
      02/10/05 05:16 AM
Yoda (formerly Hans)

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Ruchie - I'm a perfectionist too. I am so hard on myself it's ridiculous. You need to be okay with being less than perfect. We're all human and we all make mistakes. You have to forgive yourself. ALso remember you did NOT deserve the abuse in the first place. You were just a little girl - an innocent victim. Nurture that part of you.
And of course we'd still love you! Are you kidding? Don't worry about saying the wrong thing. No one is going to kick you off the boards. I have never even once thought anything you said is inappropriate. Give yourself a break. You're a terrific, wonderful, loving, sweet person and a great friend. We're fortunate to have you with us. Hang in there.
TONS AND TONS OF HUGE HUGS!!!!!!!


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* I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:02 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Janey
02/13/05 06:31 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
thepurplelollie
02/10/05 12:49 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
MissS
02/09/05 10:12 PM
* I think Beth said it all for me. Big hugs. I'm thinking of you-nt
doubletrouble
02/09/05 05:40 PM
* Thanks Amy *big hugs* backathcya! n-t
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:30 PM
* Ruchie, had a bit more to say once the kids went to bed. You have email-nt
doubletrouble
02/10/05 12:57 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
daliatree
02/09/05 01:48 PM
* DALIA
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:35 PM
* Ruchie
daliatree
02/09/05 07:57 PM
* Dalia!
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 03:20 AM
* Re: Dalia!
daliatree
02/10/05 07:58 AM
* Re: Dalia!
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 08:22 AM
* Re: Dalia!
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 08:07 AM
* Tina! Thanks!
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 08:24 AM
* To Ruchie!
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 08:30 AM
* Re: To Ruchie!
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 09:04 AM
* Re: To Ruchie!
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 11:08 AM
* Hi Dalia....I sent ya an e-mail AND
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 08:24 PM
* Re: Hi Dalia....I sent ya an e-mail AND
daliatree
02/09/05 08:32 PM
* DALIA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Help please!
Cara4503
02/10/05 06:56 AM
* Cara...
daliatree
02/10/05 08:06 AM
* Dalia, sounds so scarey!
Augie
02/11/05 07:52 PM
* Re: Dalia, sounds so scarey! :-)
daliatree
02/11/05 08:02 PM
* Re: Dalia, sounds so scarey! :-)
Augie
02/12/05 09:11 AM
* Beth!
daliatree
02/14/05 10:45 AM
* Dalia...more questions
Snow for Sarala
02/14/05 11:01 AM
* Re: Dalia...more questions
daliatree
02/14/05 12:02 PM
* Re: Dalia, sounds so scarey! :-)
Augie
02/12/05 06:11 PM
* beth 2!!!
daliatree
02/14/05 10:53 AM
* bump two above posts-nt
Augie
02/13/05 09:36 AM
* Ruchie!
Lana_Marie
02/12/05 06:27 PM
* ((((((LanaMarie)))))))
Snow for Sarala
02/12/05 09:51 PM
* Re: ((((((LanaMarie)))))))
Lana_Marie
02/13/05 08:55 AM
* Re: Dalia, sounds so scarey! :-)
doubletrouble
02/11/05 10:43 PM
* Dalia, can giving up sugar cause you to have cold sypmtoms....?
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 08:28 AM
* Re: Dalia, can giving up sugar cause you to have cold sypmtoms....?
daliatree
02/10/05 09:05 AM
* Ok, Dr. Dalia....
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 09:14 AM
* Re: Ok, Dr. Dalia....
daliatree
02/10/05 10:16 AM
* Thakns Dalia...off to check my mail...
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 08:34 PM
* Oh Ruchie
Sara-Sage
02/09/05 01:31 PM
* Tina *hugs*
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:39 PM
* Re: Tina *hugs*
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 02:55 AM
* Sorry Ruchie
Augie
02/09/05 01:31 PM
* Beth *big hugs*
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:45 PM
* Great advice and response for Ruchie, Beth -nt-
Sara-Sage
02/09/05 01:34 PM
* Thanks dear Tina
Augie
02/09/05 01:49 PM
* Re: Thanks dear Tina
Sara-Sage
02/09/05 01:53 PM
* Feel better
Augie
02/09/05 02:03 PM
* Knowing oneself takes practice. If you have a "Higher Power," call on that, first. And...
Urban Rain
02/09/05 01:18 PM
* Re: Knowing oneself takes practice. If you have a "Higher Power," call on that, first. And...
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:49 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Yoda (formerly Hans)
02/09/05 12:56 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:52 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Yoda (formerly Hans)
02/10/05 05:16 AM
* Ruchie
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 03:47 AM
* *HUG*
khyricat
02/09/05 12:16 PM
* Re: *HUG*
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:54 PM
* I know its an addiction.. but..
khyricat
02/10/05 06:09 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Sheri01
02/09/05 11:45 AM
* Sheri
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:59 PM
* So sorry, Ruchie
barbie
02/09/05 11:27 AM
* Re: So sorry, Ruchie
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 08:29 PM
* Oh, Ruchie
BL
02/09/05 10:18 AM
* Re: Oh, Ruchie
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 08:33 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Shell Marr
02/09/05 09:52 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:05 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
melitami
02/09/05 09:49 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:08 PM
* *HUGS* You've got mail! -nt-
melitami
02/10/05 09:36 AM
* Oh Ruchie!! Sending you an e-mail. Hang in there! -nt-
Tissy
02/09/05 09:46 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
michele
02/09/05 09:43 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:18 PM
* Oh sweetie!
Linz
02/09/05 09:40 AM
* Re: Oh sweetie!
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:23 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Kimm
02/09/05 09:24 AM
* Kimm...e-mailing you *hugs* n-t
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:25 PM

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