I agree with Tina, nice advice Ruchie! I think I am coping well. I love having 'me' alone time, so this is going to be ok. I do believe my main problem was the *spark*, because if it was just him not being romantic Iwould have tgotten over that. I like that I will be so busy on V_day, Iwon't even know what day it is! Thanks for your support, nice to know that you are all here!