Thanks Tommy, and I never mind hearing the male perspective! I guess the only thing bugging me is that I let such a good guy go, but if we weren't compatable, then we weren't meant to be. I am not used to having to go through this situation so it just feels alittle weird. And I have no doubt that i will find *that* guy one day. Like I said in another post, I don't want it quite yet, though, I am too young to top out at the best person for me too soon! Thanks for the support Tommy, you really take care of all of us gals!