oh yes, I will enjoy being single! I honestly am not gonna have TIME for a BF if I wanted another one! I am also not someone that "looks" for BFs. I used to never jump from guy to guy when I was younger, it is just how things worked out from my first post high school serious BF, to the next one (my last one). Chris is the only guy I ever dated that wasn't a loser, so this makes it tough cause I am letting a great guy go. But he is not a great guy for me and that is what matters. It worried me when we got together that I went from one BF to the next, but I didn't want to wait and him find someone else, he had been single for a long time at that point. Since he kinda wanted it too and since he kinda initiated our last 'uncomfortableness' (not quite an argument)- I don't think timing was too bad for him. He is not into Valentine's Day anyways. and since it is on Monday we will be both busy with work and school. Thanks for your post! All of you have been really helping!