yeah, you are right, if these types of things are a problem, they often stay that way! I am glad that we are both grown up to realize that we are just in differnet places right now and are not a good fit for each other. That is great about your mom and dad, that is what I want! And I know one day that I will find it, and actually I don't WANT to find it for awhile, because I am not ready to settle in! Thanks for your support